he used his fingers(3) in a hard way, is this possible???? i didnt bleed, but it hard a hurtful sharp pain.
2006-12-04 13:42:16 · 26 answers · asked by Jake W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Any object can break your hymen- doesn't have to be a finger or penis. Make an appointment to see your doctor or go to a women's clinic. Also, get some birth control why you're at it. If you're already letting him touch you with his fingers, you should be prepared in case you decide to take it further.
2006-12-04 13:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by goodwitch1965 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was probably it. Girls can also "pop their cherry" (ie: break the hymen) during sports or using tampons, so fingers can definitely do the same.
Please don't let your friends/boyfriend convince you that by popping it it means you aren't a virgin anymore - guys like to use that as an excuse to say it's ok to have sex since it's already gone - but you still have your virginity.
2006-12-04 21:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rae T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Your hymen (the "cherry") can break from strenuous sports like running, horseriding, or cycling. If you used tampons or you had fingered your self beforehand, that probably broke it. It [when your hymen breaks] shouldn't be painful. Tell your boy to be more gentle next time, it was probably just the angle of his fingers or even his fingernails.
2006-12-05 07:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happened to me, although that was ages ago. I thought that only sex could do it, but even if you land on a bicycle seat too hard, you can break your hymen.
If it still hurts, go see a gynocologist. Also, it sounds like your boyfriend and you are on the brink of doing it, and you need to talk to your doctor about birth control.
2006-12-04 22:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may have just riped u a lil bit.... if your so worried you should be playen. Thats a risk u got to take!however if u bike/play sports where constant strectchin is involved u may have been loose enough where u wouldnt bleed....
2006-12-04 21:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u wont always bleed when u lose ur virginity not everyone does but three fingers and youve never had sex with him
2006-12-05 12:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by shawnsboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible that's what happened. It's nothing to be concerned about though. Just be careful in the future.
2006-12-04 21:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may have popped your cherry, but this does not meant you lost your virginity.
2006-12-04 21:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no ,i think you would bleed some. but if your still in pain,see a doc.
2006-12-04 21:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by james w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I think that´s what happened, but you should try to be with someone who is a little more carefull with a delicate part of your body.
2006-12-04 21:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋