Just met a guy for 2 dates and he starts to overwhelm me with phone calls txt msgs and start to say 'miss me' etc. Feel so overwhelmed. he is a nice guy but too much attention too soon kills the passion I have towards him. what should I do, should I ask him to slow down w/o hurting relationship. Please help. I just feel want to explode under so much attention so soon.
2006-12-04 13:20:50 · 4 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try asking this is Singles and Dating...not "Marriage and Divorce"
2006-12-04 13:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to tell him to slow down if he really wants to have a chance in making things work out. Tell him you like him and are flattered, but need to slow things down a bit. If he doesn't listen, then chances are he may not be the guy for you.
2006-12-04 21:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell him that even though he is really nice and you like him... but, that he needs to slow down a little bit ... that even though it's flattering that he feels so strongly about him ... it is a little overwhelming to you ..because you aren't used to it.
2006-12-05 00:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by hthr34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want a 2 week separation.
2006-12-04 21:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋