My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years and recently I've been having a problem getting off. Any advice??
2006-12-04 13:04:24 · 8 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think you are trying too hard..thinking about it too much. I find that there are times when this happens with me too and I realized it was because when we were there, I was thinking wayyy too much about myself orgasming than I was about this incredible man that I'm getting the pleasure of. So its in those times that I have to actually tell myself to stop thinking about myself and just ENJOY THE MOMENT. This seriously works. Every time I end up with majorly rockin O's and generally 3-5 of them!!! 2 O's is minimum/standard...but 3-5 is what I call a *good night*.... So honey..just relax a lil and it'll come.. I promise.
2006-12-04 13:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body might have gotten used to the sex. Try incorporating some sort of toy, a vibe is a good one, or try more foreplay before sex. Tell your boyfriend about your problems; you'd be surprised how many guys are actually willing to help with problems like that. And don't listen to the guy at the top, he's an idiot.
2006-12-04 21:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not carefull sex can become routine. Dont just strip and get mounted. You need to keep it interesting, extend foreplay, have him go down on you, try different positions.
You can also try anal as well. If you do, start SMALL & SLOW with plenty of lube. A penis is much to large for your first anal experience.
You will be able to move up in size quickly, you just need to start small.
2006-12-05 17:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably getting tired of what he's doing. You probably need something new and exciting.
If he can't get you off, try masturbating. It works for m a lot of women I know. At least you can relieve some frustration like that.
2006-12-04 22:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not concentrating enough!!
Sounds to me like he's not paying you enough attention or you are getting sick of him and aren't turned on anymore.
Get a new boyfriend or start concentrating. An orgasm is something that you give yourself.
2006-12-04 21:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress is a major source!! Try different rooms or whatever turns u on!!
2006-12-04 21:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need to try diff. positions or maybe try adding some toys. or maybe u are just distracted,problems at work, or u are distracted by another man that ur thinking of.
2006-12-04 21:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by mrbuck98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your mind wondering? try to concentrate more during sex and relax
2006-12-04 21:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by goodgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋