Obviously what I shouldn't do is her, but I'm worried about why an 11-year-old is so sexually active and street-wise. My bus doesn't have a matron and the driver doesn't pay attention so it's basically anarchy. She often forces herself into the seat next to me and tries to seduce me or even grab me where I really do not wish to be grabbed. I don't want to hurt her feelings, outside of the blatant perversion she's a pretty cool girl but if I say I just want to be friends she punches me and sits on the other end of the bus for the rest of the 1.5 hour trip. What should I do?
2006-12-04 12:38:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey dude if ur smart, pussie is pussie dont regret not getting any. if shes got a nice body and/or takes care of herself go get u sum. keep it on the down low though. AGE does not matter my parent are 10 years apart, 4 is not biggie. kyle
2006-12-04 13:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jake W 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Thoughts like that shouldn't be in her head. You need to stay away from her. Tell someone how she is acting towards you. Don't take the situation into your own hands. If she is this obsesed with you there is no telling what kinda trouble she may cause. Keep your distance from her. Even though you are on the bus stay away from her. Keep your head up for anything that may cause you trouble. Don't refuse her yourself cause that will just propetuate the vicious cycle. She obvisouly is very attracted to you and will do anything to get your attention. Dude i'm not joking stay away from her. Rather she is cool or not she has a problem. And if she is grabbing you where you don't want to be grabbed then you really need to tell someone. I don't know your situation but i do know that if you stay near her you are gonna be in some serious trouble. Take my advice go tell the teacher or an authority figure so that way it is down on paper what is going on. That way if she gets pissed at you and tries to start crap it's already documented. It sounds like she is very controlling and will do anything to grab your attention. Like i said please go tell someone before it is to late. Good Luck and stay in school.
2006-12-04 14:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she wants attention or is a brat who thinks she can get her way.She probably is just coming around the sexual activity or someone is doing 'it' with her.You should tell her that you just want to be friends because at her age it's not right and You don't want to do it so it's not gonna happen.If she punches you and moves away then she has a problem and wants attention.Hope I helped-I'm 13 BTW
I had sorta the same problem but it was an older guy on my track team who liked me and sat with me.Sorta disgusting.Again, hope I helped.
2006-12-04 16:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her sit on the other end of the bus and ignore you. she's still a friggin child!!
i also think that if it's making you uncomfortable you should tell someone...not to be a snitch, but you must know about the lines people shouldn't cross with you.
and not for nothing, but you're right to be concerned about how an 11 yr old can be so sexually active. your best bet is to tell your guidance counselor.
good luck.
2006-12-04 12:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by alfjr24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you first need to try talking to her and tell her that you just want to be friends. if she doesnt stop tell a teacher or your parents. you could also try sitting closer to the front of the bus so that the driver would have more of a chance of noticing. Try sitting with other people on the bus before she gets a chance to sit next to you. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-04 12:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Marcella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she's way to young for that stuff ans so are you. Have some good friends sit with you on the seat so there is no room for her. If you decide to talk to her about it, tell her that your not interested in sex right now and that she certainly shouldn't be thinking about it at her age. Tell her you can be friends, but that means keeping her hands off of you.If the problem persists, go to the principal, explain the situation (even if it's embarrassing) telling him the whole truth. Even at your age you can be sexually harassed.
2006-12-04 12:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
11? Geez. I'd try ignoring her first so maybe she'd get the hint. If that doesn't work, just tell her that you are not interested, and be sure to be clear about it. If none of that works, tell your parents or a teacher. This is a problem that needs to be taken care of, and nobody should be forcing herself on you when you don't want it.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-04 12:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to wait 10 years then you'll do her or sit with another girl, even if its just a friend. Then she won't grab you "anywhere" since there's gonna be another girl next to you. O yeah make sure this girls in her teens this time.
jk about the 10 years thing
2006-12-04 12:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one option is to talk with a guidence counsler at your school, and let them talk to the girl. she needs help, and she possibly be so sexually-aware because of her home environment.
if that is too much, find a different buddy to sit with and try and arrange to sit with them.
all you can do (if you dont want to involve an adult) is tell her no.
but if she touches you, that is sexual harrassment towards you and you would be helping her out to tell an adult. because you are older than her, and male, if nothing is ever said to an adult (about your worries) it is possible that she may get mad at you for not reciprocating her feelings and cry wolf (aka say that you raped her or something) just to get even.
talk to someone. discuss your options with an adult. it will work out =)
2006-12-04 12:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by meagan.hallock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to an adult you trust. I sincerely hope this is one of your parents but if not perhaps a teacher or counselor? You are being sexually harassed and it needs to stopped; for your sake as much as the other girl.
That girl has no right to touch you, punch you, or anything else. Please talk to someone before it gets worst.
2006-12-04 12:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by x_cindergirl_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight up you don't like her.Fu*k hurting her feelings.Don't be scared to tell her.About her being 11 and wanting to have sex she's probably like me and most of the kids i know, we're from rock bottom but we came up to fast.Come stay where i stay for a little while and you'll see it.there's something about us kids that are poor and live in the ghetto we tend to grow up to faster than rich kids that live in a suitable and upper class neighborhoods that's probably what's wrong with her and there's you can do about that.
2006-12-04 13:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋