2006-12-04 12:36:54 · 18 answers · asked by Roya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
- Just write him a letter expressing your true feelings.
2006-12-08 12:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Well, first of all, know that this relationship is never going to happen. I mean, never. He's going to lose his job - and any chance of ever working as a teacher again - if he has a relationship with you and anybody finds out, and he may even be dating someone (or married!) already.
However, nothing stops you from having some healthy fantasies about him. Wait a while; guys your own age will eventually get a little more mature, and you'll start being willing to date them instead. In the meantime, don't sweat it.
2006-12-04 12:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your music teacher? Well...you would both get into trouble even if you DID get into a relationship. It probably isn't love...it sounds like you probably just have a fascination and are infatuated with him; and he's probably good looking, and probably has good hair, right? If you like music allot...and he likes music allot (hence the teaching music) then you are probably attracted to his passion of music. The same effect that rock stars and celebrities have. But, if you REALLY do love him...then wait till he's not a teacher any more. That's all you can do, unless you want him to loose his job!
2006-12-04 12:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by sammie.leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you can't tell him because you know it is inappropriate for a student past, or present to have romantic feelings for their teachers. There's quite an age difference isn't there ? What you're feeling is a crush, admiration, and yes you like him alot. But you are young and nothing will manifest if you blow these feelings out of proportion. Except he will ground you in reality..as he should that while its flattering he is just your ex music teacher.
2006-12-04 12:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not love, it is infatuation and dangerous. You need to concentrate on getting an education which will last you a lifetime and leave that alone. It will only cause you unnecessary heartache and if acted upon legal trouble.
Besides, this infatuation will pass one day and you'll wonder what in the world were you thinking.
2006-12-04 12:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by latietee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teacher have students fall in love w them ALL THE TIME!! It is nothing new-move on and forget it -admire him from a distance- D
2006-12-04 12:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep it to yourself and get over it. You sound like you're young, so you probably think you're "in love" with your music teacher because (s)he posseses qualities you admire. Stick to chasing after people your own age.
2006-12-04 12:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by lyona22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do not go there. This is not love. It is infatuation. Your fantasising about someone that you see on a regular basis. Please don't do anything. It is for your own good. If it is really full on and you don't think you can escape, maybe you should look at transferring to another class.
2006-12-04 12:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love this man? I dont think you know what that truly means. you lust after him, I would say.
Dont even go there... you'll mess up a whole lot of things if you do, and wont want to face the consequences.
2006-12-04 12:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still loved my ex. boyfriend from 6 years and finely i just asked him it was really hard and i know it was a 50 -50 change but i took it and her tuned me down but when he did i realized i was better then him and i left him behind
2006-12-04 12:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by alisha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and move on. If you truly love him, you won't put him in this dilemma. He's your teacher! find someone your own age.
2006-12-04 12:55:39 · answer #11 · answered by Vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋