2006-12-04 12:27:53 · 32 answers · asked by Jack H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES HONEY...
( see ya at home shortly )
( get the mail )..
love ya...
2006-12-04 13:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should always talk about things you disagree about and find out why you disagree, but there will always be times when one or the other of you disagree with. That's a part of any relationship. Otherwise she would be ruling the relationship and that's definitely not good. If she truly believes you should agree all the time, you should think about some counseling for the two of you.
2006-12-04 12:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, actually you are two seperate individuals and that may be one of the things that brought you guys together. No, I don't think you should always agree but only you can determine which battles are worth disgreeing on and which aren't in your marriage. The way certain things are communicated have a bearing on what is said, it's not what is said that matters but how it is said or communicated.
Hope I have answered your question.
Peace
2006-12-04 12:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Only do it when you DO Agree. If you agree all the time you won't have any identity in the relationship. It's give and take. Having good dialog with your partner strengthens the relationship. Learn about each others' wants and needs and opinions. That is the key to longevity and to really knowing your partner.
2006-12-04 12:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a dummy and let her be a ventriliquist. You will have a very rough marriage life if you just always let her have her way and not speak for yourself. If she gets mad at you or something for not agreeing with her all the time, she has issues. You will too, my friend, if you just agree with everything.
2006-12-04 12:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should both be listening to each other and debating your point. Compromise from both sides is needed in any relationship. If she expects you to agree with her everytime, then she has issues with being the boss.
I do like it when my husband agrees with me but I don't expect him to. If he was, then I would think that he was a weakling that couldn't make any decisions on his own.
Stand up for yourself and make your relationship, a partnership 50/50
2006-12-04 12:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE ...because when you build up all that resentment from agreeing with her and you disagree she is gonna go ....let me see what a good word, or a polite way to say this psycho....yes completely psycho on you!
Plus where are you being you?
depends on the time of month to : )
2006-12-04 12:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what most men do, due to conditioned response. But, if you start doing it, she will have an affair because you don't show enough attention and talk as much. It's a very fine line to walk on.
2006-12-04 12:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have no mind of your own. You can have different opinions without conflict. Just watch your tone when expressing your opinion. Don't be forceful, but be loving and try to see things from her perspective. If her perspective is blinded by stubborn opinion, show her the truth of the matter.
2006-12-04 12:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by latietee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy wife equals happy life.
In all seriousness...no, you are a separate person with valid opinions.
2006-12-04 12:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unless you want to get yelled at....lol
Seriously, try to be as agreeable as possible, but realize there are boundaries. Also, it is important to express your opinions on things, but in a reasonable, non confrontational manner.
Good Luck.
2006-12-04 12:35:22 · answer #11 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋