ok so i am seriously in love w/ this boy! and it happened last year when we sat at the same lunch table and after tht we stopped tlkin 2 each other over the summer so we came back 2 school i thought we were gonna start tlkin 2 each other again (last year we always flirted w/ each other and i knew he lked me but he never made the first move) but we've been ignoring each other since june and im still madly in luv w/ him, but i heard hes been going out w/ these random gurls so im thnkin hes forgotten bout last year but something keeps tellin me he hasnt so should i tell him the truth bout my feelings or forget bout him?
2006-12-04 12:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by mrs.jack sparrow 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
you should tell him or else you'll always wonder what could have been, but that's the chance you take.
2006-12-04 12:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by bebop_groove_bonanza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the boy may be cute, but he doesn't read minds like the Amazing Kreskin. Use that mouth and voice that the Good Lord gave you and talk to the kid!!!! You don't have to be overly aggressive or anything like that. If he flirted and stuff with you last year, he must have liked you, and I'm sure he still does..so just be yourself. Maybe nothing more happens than you just go back to being friends. That's OK...take it from an ancient relic...as you go through life, ya need all the friends you can get. Maybe over the summer he decided you weren't so cool, and that he didn't like you so much. That's OK, too...it's his loss, not yours...and besides, I'm pretty sure there are other good guys in school. If this doesn't work out, just keep being yourself, and you'll catch the attention of someone else who is attracted to your unique qualities. But for right now, take the initiative and start talking to Mr. Love Interest, test the wind to see how things are blowing, and ease into this "feelings" subject. (Don't wait for him--in case you haven't noticed, the male of this species doesn't do the "feelings talk" very well...if at all.) An ancient poet once said "You have to know when to hold 'em and know when to fold 'em" (OK, it was Kenny Rogers, but he's older than me, and that makes him ancient.). This is not the time to fold up...I'll give you the same advice I gave some guy here a couple months ago...Go for the gusto, swing for the fence, grab the brass ring, wind up and throw that Hail Mary pass, jump in with both feet, pull the goalie, kick it up a notch...in other words Go For It...good luck.
2006-12-04 20:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yinzer Power 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh this happened to me over and over again in those years I was in High school. I never had the guts to ask the question and my pride dissolved every possible communications.
I went from one flirt to another with different boys and forgotten all about the one first love I met in first year. Guess what now we are both married to other people and NO we never actually know how we felt to each other in those years, we never even talk about it!!
Please don't do what I did. Try to chat with him first, see if he replies nicely to you or see if he even responds. If he does, then maybe you can try flirting again before telling him how you feel. If he doesn't respond or reply nicely to a "Hi How are You?" then get on with your life and get another boy!
Honestly to you, broken heart CAN be cured if you don't make a drama out of it! Best of luck!
2006-12-04 23:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
following your heart, take a changes, alot of people does have love from just a glazes across the room. Tell him that you have something to talk to him about maube getone simple rose and a poem sogn your name. do something romaics, It's time for you to open up your heart
2006-12-04 22:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes, never let a good thing pass by, plus u never know what the turn out will be, hey u wanna catch a moive or something, wors ting is no, but that aint that bad now is it??
2006-12-04 21:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by SPC Monty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never give it a go and tell him, then you will never know will you.
Go for it what do you have to loose ?
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-12-04 22:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him absolutely!!!!! He will only know the gift of your caring if you do!!!!!!
2006-12-12 08:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tel him cuz if u don't ur going to regret that u didn't tel him & ur goin 2 wonder wat it could of been
2006-12-04 21:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by milkyway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or at least hint at it
2006-12-04 22:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you fell
2006-12-04 20:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by courtney s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋