I'm really popular andI find it hard cause everytime I walk in the hall tons of people know me and there all talking to me at once,or they need something for me, or they need me to go somewhere with them, or they want me to help them. I like the attention but its kind of hard sometimes. What should I do?
2006-12-04 12:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by Katie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be more humble. being popular don't make the person. think about it, when I went to school, popular girls where the onesa who put out..
2006-12-04 12:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop living up to everyone elses expectations make ur own dont care and u wont have a problem ull still be popular if not thos people who said they are ur friends would stay make ur own time and schedules just say hi and walk away really fast so they cant talk or ask anything of u
2006-12-04 20:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by joellacrosse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your only one person and cant do every thing. You should set your priorities. Decide what is more impotent, talking to them,or giving them something, or going somewhere with them, or Helping them. If you can not choose between those then try to choose who your priorities are. Now i know that that sounds mean but they can rotate. have a set # of people that you are going to help and help that #. if you can do mare that day without feeling stressed then good. But don't feel pressured to help every one.
2006-12-04 20:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by servevolleygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty well liked but what i do to keep from being popular is i am friends with pretty much everyone!! I keeps me from getting too popular but keeps me still well liked. and that way, you get even more attention.
2006-12-04 20:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cutieful &. {♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start saying NO it is good for your mental health. They will survive. After all it is all about them being selfish wanting to be seen with you to increase there popularity not caring what it does to you. You have to take care and look out for you no one else will.
2006-12-04 20:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them to get their own lives. Seriously, popularity isn't that great.
2006-12-04 20:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them your busy or to give you a second. If they're your real friends they'll stick around.
2006-12-04 20:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shaynee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you're doing, but get better at saying no. Or maybe saying, "hold on"
2006-12-04 20:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by blender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh BO- HO
I go though the same thing it;s not that bad
2006-12-04 20:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it up...popularity is not easy!
2006-12-04 20:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋