My partner was going MENTAL at me the other day.I did not know why.then he said it was because he thought I had rifled thru his pockets and found his 'secret' phone!Bloody news to me!!!I have been known to delete numbers(which i thought were dodgy) out of his phone in the past so he said i have gave him no other option but to keep a different phone.Is that normal?........so basically he was keeping two phones yet only put credit on the secret one.Has been going out and getting coked up and staying out till mad hours four days a week and saying he couldnt ring me coz he had no credit.So why has he been putting credit on the other phone instead of the one I knew him to have?when I asked him who he had been ringing off the new one,he just said his best mates.so why did he not credit the normal phone?
2006-12-04 11:50:48 · 14 answers · asked by snuffylover4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
p.s rawson.he only came clean about the phone as he woke up the next morning on a coke come down and was on a paranoia trip.
2006-12-04 12:10:33 · update #1
plus he ransacked my bags the other day to see if i had\it an d gave me a slap the other day.he ent dealing coz he is skint.he said i am driving hom away but i have been good for AGES man.
2006-12-04 12:22:19 · update #2
plus he ransacked my bags the other day to see if i had it and gave me a slap the other day too.He ent dealing coz he is skint.He said I am driving him away but i have been good for AGES man.We live with his family so I have not got much of a say in things.
2006-12-04 12:25:02 · update #3
Are you really bothered what this creep thinks ? I'd like to give him a big boot up his ar*e, how dare he give you a slap !!!!!!!! Do not allow this person to be part of your life for another minute, get shot of him as quickly as possible. Drugs are bad news, slapping women is bad news, do you need any more reasons ? I wish you joy.
2006-12-04 23:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! It's kinda obvious that he's cheating on you!!! Late nights a "secret" phone. His "secret" phone is obviously kept to hide serects from you. Secrets he doesn't want you to know. But on the other hand...is your anniversary coming up..?... he might me planning a special something for the two of you! If your anniversary isn't coming up than dump him right now sista! Lol Hope I answered your question. :-)
Sincerely,
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2006-12-04 11:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got something to hide babe, Sorry to say this cos I dont know your circumstances but I'd dump him. If he's lying about a mobile phone what else is he lying about.
Hope all gets sorted tho.
2006-12-04 11:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what the truth is, obviously you can't trust him. If he is going out and getting "coked up" he isn't capable of a healthy relationship anyway. Sorry, thems the facts.
2006-12-04 12:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U only keep secrets & get paranoid like that when u'v got something to hide.Sounds like hes bein stingy, lying about his credit aswell.Get the phone on the sly & check his calls,get devious like him.
2006-12-04 11:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Poppypunto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people automatically think "affair!!!" If you really do delete numbers that you dont recognise then he has no choice but to find another way of keeping them from you and the fact that he came out and said about the phone after all that shows that he is not after anyone else because if he was he would not have told you about it and just moved it to another place where you might not find it. give him a chance to explain himself and listen to him.
2006-12-04 11:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know why. You don't need me to tell you hes taking the piss. Could the other phone be for dealing?
That's a couple of reason's to get rid, you dont need to put up with his crap.
2006-12-04 12:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by beverley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is dealing drugs, many people buy a second (business phone) phone for dealing. Or perhaps yeah hes poking someone else.
2006-12-04 12:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's cheating but let's be fair it sounds like you're a tad possessive which is something that pushes us lads away
2006-12-04 11:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mark R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg get out of the relationship NOW
2006-12-04 12:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋