hello ...thanks for reading my question.You see I don't have a lot of friends and most people at my school who I try to be friends with don't really want to be my friend.Its because they listen to their friends too much about rumors of what im like.Recently one of my few friends I have said behind my back that he thinks im a stalker and that he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I don't understand why everyone is so mean to me now....i guess you could say i have a bad reputation. What can I do to earn a good reputation to those who claim im a stalker and those who dont want to be my friend. because of rumors and lies
thank you again-adair
2006-12-04 11:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by adair 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this shows signs of immaturity your best bet is ignore them and hope some day that they grow up and realize that their actions not hurt those that they talk about and make fun of, they also hurt themselves for trust and friendship are easy to gain and easy to lose once lost are very hard to regain and rebuild
2006-12-06 05:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is a sucky situation, you must have done something to get this rep, so stop whatever it is, and just dont talk to these people anymore, keep to yourself and dont offer them any personal info about you anymore...if they ask dont give them details...I didnt have many friends in school either and I still dont, but I like it that way..you cant change the way everyone thinks, they will think what they choose to and you will be wasting precious time and energy on them....You need to repair your tarnished image so get your hints from the gossip, if they say you are a stalker and you really have done something similar to that, DONT DO IT AGAIN!! Its hard but you have a lot of time, and when you graduate you wont even have to see these people anymore...till then f**k em...
2006-12-04 11:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWWW **** them you will find new friends soon hang around more dudes that are open minded we arent as judgemental unless your a gay male lol but just rmember what they say your like unfinished wood and nasty people are like sand paper they may scratch your rub you the wrong way but in the end you will be beautiful and polish and the sand paper(those ugly people) will be worn out and ugly. Keep your chin up babe dont worry about them just do you and be all you can be and if that guys wants to talk **** say why are you wining like a lil bi&&&ch only a fag goes around starting rumors about girls i bet he will stop then lol.
2006-12-04 12:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Psalm chapter 109 for nine days,drink a glass of water ever them you read it, and you will see all does who dispose you came tumbling at your feet
2006-12-04 11:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear...the world is way to big to please everyone. you should just let them talk all their b/s. they all have nothing better to do. trust me when i say that there is life after school!! don't try and put on an impression for others to like you. what you need to do is focus on school. what you got to understand is that people are always going to talk. they just need something to talk about to entertain their miserable live. just stay true to yourself and those who are true to you! hope this helps.
2006-12-04 12:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront the person who started the rumors about you and ask them to stop.Ask them how would they like it if you spread false rumors about them.
2006-12-04 11:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by kenshaw01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that u could confront them.. but then they would think that u were stalkin again.. u just need to find the people that accept u no matter who u are or what u've done or what others think.
God Bless
2006-12-04 11:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by ashley9_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to what others say or their gossip. It can only hurt you more. Your real friends think the best of you! Think positive:)
2006-12-04 11:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Princess_n_Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ditch them and find new friends there's a crew for everyone. check out some clubs in school is my advice.
2006-12-04 11:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by sherly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore em isn't that what they want Ur attention just keep walking like a queen or king
2006-12-04 11:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋