My girlfriend and I got into a few fights. She started punching me really hard. I didn't want to hit her back. She also pushed me down the stairs. I don't want to tell my mom, sister, or my friends. I was able to lock her in a closet so she would stop hurting me. I only leave her in there til she passes out. Then I take her to bed. She doesn't hurt me when she's sober. What can I do?
2006-12-04 11:21:20 · 28 answers · asked by J 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Time to leave. This "relationship" is not worth it.
Find someone who actually cares about you. If she won't leave you alone, get a restraining order.
2006-12-04 11:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Dump that drunk and crazzzy girl. There are some serious issues here first the sober issue, the locking someone in a closet issue, abuse which your both comitting, and any time your ashamed to tell a friend or relative, there is a reason....dont you think? Perhaps it is because you know that this isnt typical and not a good relationship or situation to be in from the get go. You know they will tell you this and have hard feelings toward her. Which is understandable on their part. You need to get yourself together and get away from her or make her get some help for alcohol abuse and anger management. My advice is to just get out while the getting is good. Women are like buses and there will be another along in 15 minutes, and probabley even one without so many issues.
2006-12-04 19:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by strawberrysbest 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems your girlfriend she an anger problem that definitely needs to be addressed. From what you have explained, it does not look like you will be able to help her. You may have to leave her immediately. As the result, she may realize she needs help and seeks professional help.
I know it is not easy to leave a person you love, but sometimes that is the only way to help them. Good luck to you both.
2006-12-04 19:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her. You can't be in a realtionship like that! It's not healthy and she seems to be drunk a lot. And, don't feel bad to tell your family members. They could probably help you figure what to do with her. How long has she been doing this to you? Even so, violence in a relationship should be an ender as far as im concerned. Good luck!
2006-12-04 19:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by equestrian6791 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and find a new chick. Dump her before she murders you during a blackout. You should be embarrassed. Anyone should that sticks around and puts up with behavior like that. Once you have to lock a girl in a closet that relationship is over.
2006-12-04 19:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chula 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You gotta talk to somebody. Get her some help for both of your sakes. Maybe bring her to a counselor.
And if nothing else, just ditch her if she can't keep herself from hurting you like that.
You should only be embarassed if you do nothing about it. And you've taken the first step by posting this question on here. Good luck to you.
2006-12-04 19:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about yourself you will leave this relationship. I mean seriously there are only two choices here. either get her some counseling and if she refuses then that shows how much she cares. I personally would leave and notify your friends and family what shes doing cause they are there for support. That is what you need right now support. God bless you and i pray you get this worked out.
2006-12-04 19:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_one4now 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u seem like u love her a lot not to tell any1. But lovin her doesnt mean u have to take all the pain and hold the grude inside~ talk to her about how you feel when she get violence. Tell her u love her very much and wish her to stop this. She'll understand and love u for excepting her and 90% chance she will fix her problem.
2006-12-04 19:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her to an AA meeting and then leave her. She needs professional help. She obviously has a drinking problem and is taking it out on you. You need to take the initiative to leave her. Once she is in a program on the path to recovery she is no longer your problem. It's the best thing for you both!
Good luck!
2006-12-04 19:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by rachybaby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she hurts you again, call the police. She shouldn't be drunk by any means. In the US, legal drinking age is 21 and I am assuming you both are 18.
2006-12-04 19:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋