and I'm not talking about people who steal, cheat, murder, etc. mostly, i'm talking about extremely sensitive, moral and intelligent individuals who've been thru' a little more than the rest of the crowd
thanx
2006-12-04 11:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its easier and faster to judge and most people just don't care
2006-12-04 11:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by chilover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural for someone to use their past experiences to predict the way someone is going to act in the future. I don't think people can't do that. If they can, they are very strong willed and extremely focused.
Plus, after a while it gets tiring making excuses for people.
I mean, if they're not doing anything wrong and they are just being themselves, then it's not right to judge them. But if they are using their life as an excuse to act a certain (negative) way, then they know better and probably will be judged.
2006-12-04 11:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by snippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mirror is not clean, people reflect their inner state of weakness. Judgement being a subtle subconcious excuse for being weak.
Some kind of a self-defense mechanism. Thus a wise man will usually pity the judger and not the judged.
2006-12-04 11:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by prabato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just get caught up in the moment - or crowd / mob mentality takes over ..
Sometimes , when it seems as if another is "choosing to live in his "pain body " , that person makes him or herself a sort of target for insensitive individuals .
2006-12-04 15:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The flaws they recognize in that person are flaws that the person judging has and doesn't like so they point them out in other people so as to feel better.
2006-12-04 11:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mouse B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people judged other people because
they are ignorant. Another reason some people
judge others is because they have little or no
self-esteem.
2006-12-04 11:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you observe people around you, you will find the extroverts are usually those who talk first and think later, then say sorry.
2006-12-04 11:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋