Ok so im try to spice things up alittle with my love life and i am looking for good ideas, i make his lunch for him, for work sometimes, i thought about sliping a note in with a frisky comment on it and telling him to count how many times he heres a particular word(havent picked a word yet, could use some help) and say that number will be, the amount of time he gets to indulge in whatever he wants,(of course this is all sexual) when he is home... ok sorry if thats alittle much for a question..but do you think its a good start? : /
2006-12-04 11:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by tired 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure. I leave notes in my hubby's pockets and car that say things like, "This coupon good for a *insert favor*" or "Hurry home, your wife wants you!"
2006-12-04 11:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY do this if he eats his lunch every single day in private.
I hear ideas like this so much and can't help but think that some businessmen have been put in AWFUL situations from a sweet gesture from the wife. Can you imagine if his boss or a client saw a dirty letter. It's not worth it.
Find other ways to get this cute message across. Perhaps it's a note in the car or one where he puts his things when he comes home. MAYBE in his pocket but even then be careful with that.
Same thing goes with dirty cell phone messages. If he is in a job where he is near or in a car with someone else (ever!) and/or listens to his voicemails on speaker then don't do this. It's terribly embarassing for him and whomever hears and can really screw up his jobs and client or boss relationships.
DO NOT PUT LINGERIE IN HIS BRIEFCASE LADIES!!!
2006-12-04 19:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it will be a good try for a start. But you must consistantly think of way to spice up your love life as time goes on otherwise it will dies off very easily.
2006-12-04 20:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you feel like it will spice things up go for it. you know your relationship better than anyone and if you like the idea, it will probably work. I'm sure that if you pick something he likes, he'll go crazy over it. If that doesn't work, you could always try those sexual board games / card games / dice games etc. that they have at novelty stores.
2006-12-04 19:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start it a good and brilliant idea. You sure know how to spice up your relationship. Good Luck
2006-12-05 01:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that takes a little too much thought on his part . just tell him how many time you want to do his favorite thing to him. that will get him more aroused . trust me it worked for me except it was done in a text message.
2006-12-04 20:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I think is an excelent idea, if you are confortable with it. About the world, sorry, I can't help you.
2006-12-04 19:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Karla F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great idea, I should have you talk to my wife.
2006-12-04 19:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by MIster G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and then pick a word like "recondite"
2006-12-04 19:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by badBrad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
souds like a very good start, just keep thinking up new ideas
2006-12-04 20:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by hotwheels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋