Top 10 Ways to Get A Great Date?

Question

I'm an attractive, social, intelligent guy with a good job. I love people and have no real problems socializing (at least, no more than others). That is, except in a bar full of strangers. Guys who have dated me and had taken the first step have told me they were intimidated to first ask me out because they thought: (a) I must already have a bf, or (b) I'd have most anyone I wanted. But I never think that - and myself get intimidated in bar settings even approaching guys who are attractive.

So my question: what are your top 10 ways for me to get a date with a guy I would date?

Please give constructive advice with 10 tips - that'll get you the best answer. And I'll appreciate you for it! ;) Thanks!

Answer 1

You're in a bar looking for a great date???


That's like looking for virgins in a whore house.


Bars are great places to find drunks.

Answer 2

Steer the conversation towards things you could do on a date - music, movies, favorite food/restaurants, social sports/outdoors. If they're smart, they'll get the hint and ask you out.

PS I wrote this assuming you're a girl (gotta read more carefully), but I guess it all still applies.

Answer 3

If you're bisexual, you'll double your chances.:-)

Also, do you have a list in mind of what you expect this date to be? How extensive is it? That may be your problem. You may not be giving guys a chance based upon your preconceived notions. We all do that to some extent.

Luckily, my guy and I have been together over 32 years, so that's all long gone! May you be as lucky.

Answer 4

What do u like doing? like if you like music, go to a music store or anywhere with music to meet someone. dont act like your too good, be relaxed and friendly. be open and if you ask them if they have a bf and they dont ask you back, tell them you dont, if you want to date them.