If he is our boyfriend, then yes, he is cheating on all of us.
2006-12-04 11:17:58
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answer #1
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answered by joycedomingo 3
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i think you mean how do you know if your boyfriend cheats on you.?
well, just kind of observe. If you are hearing it from other people, realiable sources. then maybe check his phone or computer. If you have an open relationship, where you guys tell each other everything, then confront him. however, thats not always easy. i imagine he will deny it, at first. if you bug him then it might not be good.
Basically, it depends on the realationship. Know what i mean.
i personally, dont like the confornting thing, i like the looking on the phone thing. I would feel gulity though.
hope it helps
xoxo
2006-12-04 19:20:18
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answer #2
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answered by katie d 1
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Nobody on the earth can cheat you unless you offer yourself to be cheated. Dont blame others for your own fault. Every part of the body shows the desire of anyone and is clearly depicted in one's activities.
2006-12-05 00:20:02
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Forget what you’ve seen on TV. The plots of countless crime shows notwithstanding, Stout says, “even trained psychologists are very bad at discerning the moment when someone is telling a lie.” Rather than studying your date’s face for an unconscious twitch or a furtive sideways glance, “you’re better off trying to figure out this person’s character,” which is revealed more by his conversation than by his body language or facial expressions. Which brings us to…
Ask the right questions. Stout recommends asking (not grilling) your date about his past romantic entanglements, then listening very carefully to what he has to say. “If he attributes everything that went wrong to the other person, then he’s not taking responsibility for his own life, and such people often turn out to be liars.” This doesn’t only apply to past girlfriends: If, for instance, he says he left his last job because his boss was “a jerk,” that’s a red flag, too.
Stand your ground. If you decide to challenge your beau about one of his half-truths (or outright whoppers), be prepared for a barrage of excuses. “Often times, such people will try to appeal to your honesty and empathy,” Stout says. Here are some lines you’re likely to hear: “I was turned on by you so much, I just couldn’t bear to tell you,” “Please don’t be angry, you’re the only one who understands me,” and “I’ll never do it again, can you please forgive me?”
Don’t fall for the “rebel” routine. “A sociopath feels himself to be outside the law, social or actual,” Stout says, “and not only does he like to bend the rules, he also wants you to help him.” So if your date casually says things like, “Let’s have sex in the elevator,” or “Let’s just sneak into the movie, no one will notice,” don’t be surprised if he’s dropped a few lies as well during the course of the evening.
Know when to cut your losses. Surprisingly, Stout takes a more lenient stance than the classic expression, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” “I have a list of rules for dealing with sociopaths, and one of them is The Rule of 3’s. If this person has misled you once, it could be a mistake or misunderstanding. If he’s done it twice, it can still be a mistake (though that’s less likely). But when it happens three times, that’s when you know you’re with someone who deals in falsehoods.”
Don’t blame yourself. Per the first point on this list, Stout says, many women tend to beat themselves up after becoming involved with a pathological liar, because they cling to the “superstition” that they should have been able to figure things out right away. “Lying is difficult to detect,” she says, “so you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself.” Get away from the liar in question, and get on with your life without berating yourself.
2006-12-05 02:15:52
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answered by Photographer 6
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coming from a man the first thing they do is doze off then they try to give u excuses to leave the room after wards they jack off. and if u ever catch him he is cheatin on some1 else wit u
2006-12-04 19:18:42
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answered by Anonymous
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look in his eyes and slowly and slowly u will notice change in his behaviour, these are the signs of cheating.
2006-12-08 05:12:18
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answered by Hidimba 3
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THEY CHANGE, THEY START SPENDING LESS TIME WITH YOU. THE RELATIONSHIP FEELS DIFFERENT. HE'S NOT AS LOVING AS HE USE TO BE. HE DOESN'T WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU AS MUCH AS HE DID. HE STARTS TO HAVE THINGS TO DO MORE AND MORE WHICH MEANS HE CANT SPEND TIME WITH YOU.
2006-12-05 00:40:19
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answered by desperate 2
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In your case I would say yes.
2006-12-04 19:18:30
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answered by badBrad97 2
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You will feel it in your heart. There will be tell tale signs that you will observe,
2006-12-04 19:34:15
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answered by ? 7
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WHEN HE STARTS TO IGNORE US WE MUST UNDERSTAND THAT HE IS CHEATING US OK BE CARE FUL IN THIS MATTER OK
2006-12-05 01:34:11
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answered by ASMA A 1
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