ok this guy I really like well I found out he likes me too. My friends like him too. They got mad at me because I was gonna start dating him and they all got mad because I wanted him. Should I back off and let him go or should I stay with my feeling. I dont feel like I am in the wrong for going after what I want or am I? Please help me this is really confusing
2006-12-04 11:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if he likes you and not your friends then they should respect that grow up and move on with it. No you are not in anyway wrong if your freinds are TRUE friends then they will be your frineds after they get over there temper tantrum
2006-12-04 11:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong. If your friends were really your friends, they would understand that he likes YOU NOT THEM, and be ok with it. The only time you back off of a man is if he was already with one of your friends. If you all just like him, but no one has been with him, he's fair game...just let your friends know...don't ask, LET THEM KNOW...that you're going out with him.
2006-12-04 11:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are just jealous nothing wrong with following your heart an with time your friends will move on to other guys... Just don't rub it in thier face okay.. may make it alil easier to deal with
2006-12-04 11:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be passing up the love of your life. As long as none of your friends had a relationship with this gentleman then it is first come first serve. Lots of luck.
2006-12-04 11:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself! Go ahead and date the guy and be sure you maintain your very high standards on acceptable behavior.
2006-12-04 11:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything - be nice and pleasant to him. If he asks you out, then it is you he likes, and that should be the end of it. If he asks you out, definitely go. It's you he likes.
2006-12-04 11:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right never follow other peoples needs or you'll be trapped into them!!! like a slave to there wants pick your own destiny
2006-12-04 11:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by jason.gmathews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you why do your friends object? Have you told us the whole story...?
2006-12-04 11:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have 2 keep your best interst in mind. go for it, cause you are totally not wrong!
2006-12-04 11:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think its wrong? If they object, then you must protect...
2006-12-04 11:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Foxtrot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋