was so in love and he cheated with some fat assed horseface(sorry couldn't help myself) now he is with someone else and i have gained wait comfort eating to forget him. I have been in a zombie like state and feel like there's no point living. i want him to feel the same pain i feel although i don't think its possible as iam numb with pain.
2006-12-04 10:58:00 · 40 answers · asked by talie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Talie, first of all: there is point living, that point is YOU. It's allright to feel blue when life has been a bit rough with you. We're not robots!
All right, you put on weight, well, that comes OFF! You're still in there! Comfort eating is a great way to cope with being low, it gives you one pleasure when life seem to have NONE! As long as you watch your health for the future, nothing has been ruined forever.
It's not your fault he has behaved like a twit towards you, and as for the revenge:
Do you really want to spend the precious time of your life thinking up stuff to do to a guy who is now mercifully gone?
Look at it this way: You risked BIG, and just got away by getting rid of him early. That's great! You could have got married to him before finding out he was a cheater.
He doesn't matter, YOU do! So take the time you need to be all right within yourself and one day soon you won't know whatshisface in a parade.
2006-12-04 12:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by rubbercod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well.
~ George Herbert
English clergyman & metaphysical poet (1593 - 1633)
You are in a lot of pain right now, and it is not a good idea to be making any major decisions. I know it hurts, but try and move on and let this guy go. He will only do it again to the next girl, and then she'll be in your shoes.
In the meantime, enjoying your own life and happiness will be the best revenge--he'll see you happy and peaceful and know that you don't miss him at all. If you seek revenge or act angrily, he'll know that he hurt you and that you still have feelings for him. Don't give him that power!
2006-12-04 11:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by AvidReader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is part of the universe experience. Everyone will experience some kind of pain in their lifetime - apparently we grow in spirit through pain. I've asked this question before.
Don't bother with revenge. Don't comfort eat - it doesn't accomplish anything. When the initial shock has worn off you may feel a bit disheartened, only then will you move on when ready to. It takes time. All a learning/experience curve...
You'll know when you are ready.
2006-12-04 11:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by The Mole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself
Stop comfort eating and sort yourself out
Loose the weight
Have ya hair done
Buy some new clothes
Go everywhere looking happy, content and confident as if you don,t have a care
Look your best he will or his friend will see you looking great and he will have ALL the regrets
And remember he is a lying cheat so don't loose sleep over such rubbish
move on and upward
yeah it hurts a bit but dont let him see that
TC n have fun
2006-12-04 11:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by benji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do. Take off that weight you put on by eating right and exercising for 60 minutes everyday for a month. Make sure you drink 8oz. glass of water 8 times a day. Thus making you hot like fire and him a nasty azz mess with the ugly new gf. Doing this will bring your energy up and you will feel better. If he told you something in confidence that no one knows about. Spread it to anyone you can. Trusth me that one thing will balloon into a hug mess embarrassing him to no ends.
2006-12-04 11:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta agree with pretty much every other response the best response is gettin yourself looking as Hot as the centre of the sun. Sensible diet, exercise and take yourself shopping for some new clothes Then start rebuilding your self-confidence with some top nights out with your friends collecting numbers from all the guys who will be following you around like love-sick puppy dogs.
If that doesnt work for you then try swapping his hair gel with hair removal cream. That ought to do the trick..
2006-12-04 11:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Litmus180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it is a very difficult time for you at this moment, & you are full of hate for his betrayl, revenge is not the answer.
Your self confidence understandly has take a severe blow, hence the comfort eating. But soon that time will pass. When the hurt & anger have subsided, you will be able to think more rationally.
In time you will realise that it is your boyfriend's loss, & your gain.
You will meet new people, & start dating again, & soon you will fall in love.
2006-12-04 11:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know what the real situation is.
I hate to be petty, but here goes:
The best revenge takes time and is morally correct. It is the one that hurts most and he will not think you are truly doing it to hurt him. It is the one that will cause the truest pain over time, and also be humane and right. It is not easy. But it is not illegal. Here goes:
Find someone else
Be sure it is THE ONE.
Be happy so that all can see.
Live happily ever after.
2006-12-04 11:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the best revenge ever - get yourself back on top form, lose that weight, make yourself look a miilion dollars and show the world you mean to have fun. Go places where he'll see you or get to hear how great you are and boy will he be sick he cheated - thats the only way that will really work. Go for it - I promise you wont regret it xx
2006-12-04 11:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get that weight back off!! Exercise and get your body better than before. Get a makeover, a couple of really hot new outfits then go where he can see you but COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM!
Make him really regret breaking your heart. Let him drool but don't give him the time of day. Move on and find a guy who won't take a chance on losing you by cheating!!
2006-12-04 11:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋