My best friend got a job as a personal assistant/secretary at a small company. The guy has two openings, and I am in desperate need of a job. However, after my best friend's first day at work, they went back to his place. You know. Well, my best friend and I are very open with each other, and we were mentioning a threesome (not seriously debating it, just mentioning it between ourselves) and I think she might have said something to him? It is after office hours and he just called to see if I wanted to come for an interview tonight. I don't want it to be awkward so I told him I could be there as early as 7am tomorrow morning. He said "if you are still inerested in the position we need to meet asap because I need to fill it." I told him again I could do it whenever he wanted tomorrow (during normal hours) but now I'm worried if I go he will hit on me and ... you know, just an uncomfortable situation. Should I just not go at all and avoid it? Or go and see if maybe I'm just over reacting?
2006-12-04 10:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by while_love_remains 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
AVOID THIS AT ALL COST. He will tire of sleeping w/ your friend and move on to you or fire her and get someone else. This is a no win situation.
2006-12-04 11:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you plan to willingly be hired for the purpose of having sex with this man - let's get real, it ain't about the job with him - then you should stay as far away from this man and the job as possible. Don't go in for any interview of have any further contact with him. If he calls to ask why a no show or whatever, just tell him that you decided to take a job elsewhere and politely hang up. STAY AWAY FROM THIS JOB.
2006-12-04 11:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was poor judgment of your friend to sleep with the person who is in charge of hiring (I assume he hired her, right?) Don't let yourself get sucked into that. You can always bring someone else along with you to the interview tonight. But you might consider not taking the job at all.
2006-12-04 11:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. You should never mix relationships with fellow employees this can lead to an negitive work environment. I advise you not to do this. You should not take a job because of sex. You should take the job only if you are qualified. Do not get into a sexual harassment problems. DO NOT DO IT!
2006-12-04 11:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by shannon_szukala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a fun place to work.... Go for it.
2006-12-04 11:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by The Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety use your commen sense i trust u will
2006-12-04 11:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋