2006-12-04 10:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We've both agreed that there are no romantic feelings on either part of the relationship, and that it's a no strings attached type situation. We both like cuddling and making out, and we're mature enough to handle the complications that could arise. I was just wondering how likely it is for the situation to go bad.
2006-12-04 11:03:56 · update #1
Always dangerous......sooner or later, feelings get involved, particulary with women. Don't get me wrong, in the beginning, it is great! But it slowly detoriorates, and you will end up with no friend at all.....
2006-12-04 10:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be good and it could be bad. I have found that at some stage one of the parties will get emotionally involved and unless the feelings are reciprocated it could be a disaster.It takes two very mature and honest people to be in this type of relationship. Then there is also the issue with what the rules are, do you sleep with other people? If so what about STIs.
In theory it sounds great but in reality it aint so good.
2006-12-04 19:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not a good idea it may seem like one but its not. I've had a friend with benefits and it didn't turn out to good. It just isn't a good idea. Too many emotions involved and even if there are no feelings on your part there might be feelings on his/her part.
2006-12-04 18:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotions will eventually come into the picture; are both of you mature enough to handle that?
2006-12-04 19:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very likely, friends with benefits is not friends once you continue to sleep with someone other feeling get involved no matter how much you say there are no feelings. questions start to arise jealousy, getting butt hurt and there's nothing you can do since "your just friends"
good luck
2006-12-04 19:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would have to say that each would be using the other. And I don't like being used. And in the end...and mind you there will be an end. Someone will be hurt. So I would have to say....RUN FOREST RUN. Good luck with your choice
2006-12-04 19:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by George P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in that situation before and it doesnt work out so dont try it you'll ending up relizing that he or shes not the one for you and their really wierd.
2006-12-04 18:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Katie M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not gud. you either their friend r thier lover~ but not friend w/ benefits. "Friend w/ Benefits" mean you're that person friend, they could hug you they could be kind of ur "lover" but they also allowed to have another REAL LOVER- itz really confusing and complicated~
2006-12-04 19:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing. It's when you wanna be friends with somone but you love them more then a friend. It's an oxymoron.
2006-12-04 18:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Magnim Opus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's virtually certain there will be a bad ending with someone torn up.
2006-12-04 19:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋