had sex with this girl two weeks ago (19 nov). she called me that saturday (25 nov) to tell me that she thinks she missed her period. i wore a condom, i did not c*m, and it did not break. last thursday we went to take and EPT and it said "not pregnant". she claims to not have had sex with anyone else (but I am not so sure). i instinctively feel as though i couldnt have gotten her preg. whats interesting is that she claims to have serious financial problems and is begging for help with mortgage. even said "give me money so I can go to doctor and figure it out myself" (but who knows how she would really use the money) deep down i dont trust her...so , we are going to meet tonite..if she takes another EPT tonite do you think it would be accurate at this point? she said her period is never normal and shes not even sure what here cycle is...please help me. i am feeling like she might be dragging her feet so i can give her money and may grind me down over time. what do you think?
2006-12-04 10:48:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I want to use the EPT test thats says..."works any time"...
2006-12-04 11:00:08 · update #1
Believe me she's not pregnant. In order for that EPT to work, she needs to wait a few more weeks any ways. Tell her she's trippin' and don't let her stress you out. I'm a woman who knows all the tricks of the trade. I hope you take my advice.
2006-12-04 10:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by MILF101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First on the nov 25 I don't think she could know she was pregnant. Last Thursday is still a little early to tell (it takes 12 days after conception to show pregnancy, that is only 12 days) Tonight she should be able to tell with a test. Don't give her any money tell she can prove to you that she is pregnant. And you and her can go to a planned parenthood or local health clinic and get a free or nearly free test. If she comes up negative still tonight wait a couple more days and go and get tested from one of those places.
2006-12-04 11:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be more accurate, but it's absurdly unlikely that she is pregnant.
Point her in the direction of Planned Parenthood. Make sure she isn't. Then, get and stay well away from her. How on earth would she have decided she'd missed her period if her cycle is irregular and she doesn't keep any track of it...?
If you really want to get involved with going to a doctor -- which sounds unnecessary, and which will be even more unnecessary after a 2nd negative test -- go with her and write the doctor a cheque.
In the meantime, go read about the test:
http://www.pfizerch.com/brand.aspx?id=294
2006-12-04 11:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you think. Don't have sex with her again. The EPT tonight probably would test positive IF she got pregnant about November 19. But, it's unlikely that she's pregnant based on the circumstances you described. In fact, I would probably avoid this chick after tonight, and if she does turn up pregnant, ask for a paternity test as soon as possible.
2006-12-04 10:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would make sure to go with her to the doctor. Some women are SO scandelous and would do anything to keep a certain man around! Even lying about something as important as creating a child! It might be yours and it might not. But make sure you go with her because anyone can lie and use it as a trap!
Good luck! Also I know someone that was with a girl for 5 years and had 2 kids with her and JUST found out that NEITHER one of them were biologically his and he was LIVING with her all that time!
Im just saying keep your eyes open!
2006-12-04 11:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by BigBrownEyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex 2 weeks ago there is a very slim chance of finding out this early but......
You could go with her to planned parenthood or any health clinic in your area. If there is a fee then you can pay it there that way you know where the money is going to go. Just tell her you want to find out just as bad so you want to go along.
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2016-10-14 00:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she called you 7 days later is impossible to know your pregnant that soon, and her test said no. That time frame would make the conception date off, and you didn't c*m, and you had on a condom. It in my opinion is almost impossible for her to be pregnant. I would go with the tests results, but if you really want go to the Dr. and they can do a blood test to see if shes pregnant, but again I HIGHLY doubt it. Good Luck!
2006-12-04 12:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by baby squirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only sure way to tell if she's pregnant or not is through a blood test. Check around your area for free clinics you can take her to. That's the best thing I can think of for you both...
2006-12-04 10:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Angela J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better if you take it in the morning . but if you didnt c*m then there is no way she could be pregnant and also if she doesnt know her cycle she sounds like she wants to rake you over the coals so dont give her any money until you know for sure
2006-12-05 02:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by dutchess mcgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋