like me and my b.f went to the store and we were hlding hands and people were just saying really mean things
2006-12-04 10:41:17 · 11 answers · asked by yadi to hot 4 yall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dey jus jealous dat dey dont got wut u have
2006-12-04 10:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't know. I'm not one to look down on someone for walking hand in hand with the person they love no matter what color. I can only guess and I'd guess that it is because they were taught to think it is wrong. If you put a group of small children into a room they will all play together and not judge or criticize another child because of their color. They also could care less if one or more of the children are overweight. It means nothing to them because they look deep into the person that they are playing with and determine if they are nice or not. They don't judge them from their outer appearance. But, as they grow older they are influenced by the adults in their lives and television. We actually teach our children to think it is wrong by the messages we let them see on t.v. and in the magazines. I think it is sad. And to answer your question further... I think several people that "think" it is wrong really won't have a solid answer to back up their belief. Many don't know "why?". They just think it is the way it is supposed to be because that is what they were taught. I hope you accept my apology for the ignorant ones. Good luck in your relationship and God bless!
2006-12-04 19:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're encountering some ignorant, racist people. It's probably hard to ignore them at times, but just remember *they're* in the wrong.
And as for people like zax_fl above - sorry, zax, but he's just justifying racism. You shouldn't date someone of another race because *other* people won't accept you? That's rubbish. The other people are in the wrong, not you.
Feetal's attitude isn't much better. Would you have a problem with black men dating white women, Feetal? Did it ever occur to you that maybe those black women are just attracted to white men because of a strong "opposites attract" physical attraction they have - and nothing to do with thinking they're doing better. I find black women very attractive as a white man - how do you explain that according to your theory? Sheesh.
Love who you want to love - regardless of skin color (or gender for that matter) - and best of luck! Walk tall, girl, and look 'em right in the eye!
2006-12-04 19:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen in my wife's family, the hurt interracial relationships bring. The other person is ALWAYS considered an outsider. The children too become outcast and seen as the opposite race, by whom ever they interact.
The two of you may be great together, however, people still are slow to include those who are "different".
2006-12-04 18:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can relate, I'm black and my love ( boyfriend) is white and Indian, sometimes we get looked at, but I just smile, and grab him even closer, I have learned to just like when the people give dirty looks, it just shows that they are digusted over two beauitful people. Do not let it get to you. Bring him closer, kiss him, and say I love you baby, so they see, that it is not clor that matters, its the love that is between you two. God bless babe, and stay strong.
2006-12-04 18:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wonder what led a beautiful black woman to prefer or open herself to the idea of dating outside her race. it really annoys me to know that some black women think by dating a white man they are "upgrading" their standards and status in life. it makes me wonder whether these sisters are unhappy or ashamed of the fact that they are black. there is NO better match for a black woman than a black man, and vice versa. PERIOD.
2006-12-04 19:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you just have to hold your head up and keep walking dont be ashamed of your relationship God dont see color he loves us all people are just stupid you cant help who you fall in love with so dont let it get to you be proud of your man
2006-12-04 18:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by lovingmychris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are uncomfortable with what they don't understand. They forget that folks are people regardless of their skin color or culture.
2006-12-04 18:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. It's their ignorance showing!
2006-12-04 18:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because the whoever was talking about you wanted to be with you. you havent done anything wrong
2006-12-04 19:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignorant ppl does that..... so just ignore
2006-12-04 18:46:08 · answer #11 · answered by Morena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋