2006-12-04 10:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by ian_lainof 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol! probably b/c she doesnt care, she's just glad that she doesnt have to cook! in some cases, women AND men dont like to pick out the place to eat (or make other decisions,) b/c if it sucks they dont want to listen to their partner ***** about it. just be glad that she's easy going,
2006-12-04 10:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by bgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for your wife but I can tell you that for most women the exact place truly doesn't matter. The company is much more important. If she's going to dinner with someone she likes to be with (I'm guessing you), the important part is decided. She isn't indecisive (if she's like me), she's already happy. The meal will be excellent wherever you go because the company is good! Next time, why don't you try asking what she's definitely not in the mood for and then choose yourself from whatever cuisines are left? Women also tend to like a man who's decisive but considerate-that would cover both bases.
2006-12-04 10:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweetredbeachlvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have a hard time deciding because she doesn't want you to be disappointed. Have you, in the past, when she has made a decision of where to eat sit there and complain about the food, atmosphere, or staff? Are you a picky eater or critical of situations? These are just some questions that come to mind from past knowledge of others experiences. She is wanting you to be happy with the choice she makes in all realms of the decision. Try giving positive input to her decision making and see what happens. Put it to her that the choice is hers and it is her night and do not make one negative remark on the choice.
Food for thought.
2006-12-04 10:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and be the man.If she finds a place she really wants to go I'm sure she will tell you.whats the big deal on where you eat at,we all have to eat.Next time go to a hamburger drive thru,,,and see her face,,,I bet she'll tell you next time.
better yet make her supper at home with candles and soft music
2006-12-04 11:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife sounds like me. I think she wants you to choose the place and if you choose correctly, you score! I think essentially she wants you to decide on a great place and take her out and sweep her off her feet. Good luck, hopefully you know her well enough by now to know what she wants.
2006-12-04 17:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jas K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has the same problem, sometimes we just like the guys to take charge, and we are hoping that they read our mind and pick the same place we were thinking about... lol
2006-12-04 10:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by aprilgirl86429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can. She just doesn't know how to make decisions.
2006-12-04 11:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by she_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOLOLOL Only one solution to that... Reach in your wallet and give her some money, and tell her to go off in her car to whatever restaurant she fancies. You have already made up YOUR mind where you want to eat, so you'll meet her back at the house later, and swap doggie bags
2006-12-04 10:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep asking her and she will eventually pick a place. Or you can go where she doesn't like and she will start making up her mind quicker.
2006-12-04 11:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she doesn't want to feel like she is controlling you in decisions. trust meon this one. I am the same way.
2006-12-04 10:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋