2006-12-04 10:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by waggy 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi Waggy,
Thanks for your question. The most polite way of breaking up with someone is to be honest and upfront about it. Do it in person if possible. That way, you've shown the person you've been dating that you respect them and that you are being truthful.
Try to avoid making statements that you don't mean. If you never want to see them again, avoid saying the cliche "let's just be friends." Also try to be understanding, especially if the person is hurt by the break up. But again, be honest and then - move on.
2006-12-04 10:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy and I agree that commenting about just being friends is not a good idea. If friendship is going to happen it will come in it's own time after the hurts are over.
Try to be calm and not get into a shouting match-just state your case and turn around and walk away. But do be kind and use words not to add to hurt.
2006-12-04 20:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is best tell them why you want to break up and try not to spear there feelings just be honest but not rude. Good luck
2006-12-04 18:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mz Bree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A clean break is always best. There really isn't a neat, gentle, way to break someone's heart.
2006-12-04 18:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a lot easier to just say it and be done with it than to mess around with "let's be friends" or any of that bull.
Best to simply state the truth and walk away.
2006-12-04 18:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell her/him that you just want to be friends and tell the person that you still like them but as a friend and that you don`t fell the same way like when you used to realy have intrest in them!!!=]=]=]=]=]=]=]=]=]
2006-12-04 18:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~TIGGER~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If politeness is the only concern, then say something like, "PLEASE get the hell out of my life."
2006-12-04 18:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by steviewag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do you still want to be friends
you can say i like it better when we were just friends
-or-
i just dont like you anymore...sorry
sorry that they^ suck
2006-12-04 18:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by that girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋