I haven't been preforming well in the sack. I get her all worked up sick it in her and puff its gone I haven't always been like this just within the last month
2006-12-04 10:20:51 · 16 answers · asked by Waldo Y 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try to think about other things or find a position that doesn't feel as good.
2006-12-04 10:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have described is premature ejaculation. It is very common in marriages and you should not feel bad about it. There are exercises you can do to help lengthen the time of your ejaculations with your wife. Women normally take from 10 to 15 minutes to become aroused and that is what foreplay is all about.
Once you have your partner aroused then you want to keep her in this arousal state until she climaxes if at all possible. You first need to not ejaculate after 10 strokes. Here is what you can do and with your partner’s help. When you feel the urge to ejaculate pull out of her. Have her take her index finger and middle finger and place it under side of your penis head and the thumb on top of the penis head and gently yet firmly squeeze the penis head until the urge subsides. Then continue the pumping action until the urge returns repeat this over and over until you want to ejaculate. It will take several months to lengthen the time and number of stroked but you will have more staying power and your wife will be more orgasmic. Once you have done this then you can start to practice on strengthening the Kegel muscle that controls the restricts the flow thru the prostrate area. Good Luck
2006-12-04 18:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the movie Something About Mary. Don't Go Out With A Loaded Gun. Jerk off before you have sex and you will last longer.
2006-12-04 18:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Psyche Goodspeed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reduce your stress load...mental stress cause a man to perform quicker in bed. Also get some excercise...physical stamina is important with these matters. Lastly, stop making a big deal of it...have some fun and make it more playful circumstances.
2006-12-04 18:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thought control. Think about something gross while you're in there like stepping in a fresh pile of steaming dog poop.
Take slow, easy thrusts at first, stop when the tingle gets too strong. Resume slow, easy thrusts until it's time.
Buy some "Nupercainal" at the drug store and put it on the end of your rod before you go in... it will deaden the nerves allowing you to go for a long, long time.
This will make her very happy... trust me.
2006-12-04 18:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try streaching before hand and then once your at it, make sure to relax and maintain breathing. worse comes to worse, rub one out, wait 15 min and you'll go for awhile. Also if shes not to lubed up b4 it goes in, usually the guy finishes faster due to more friction in the start.
2006-12-04 18:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by ian c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus on increasing your body-centered awareness through meditation and breathing techniques. You will learn how to recognize the subtle patterns of your body and figure out when you reach that point of no return and how to back away from it.
2006-12-04 18:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self-induced manual (masturbation). It's a great way to practice on your endurance, stamina, and control of the Old Faithful.
2006-12-04 18:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be more interacting with that person your having sex with by kissing and touching on your companion and guarantee she wont leave you she would want more and more
2006-12-04 18:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by von-von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about old hockey goalies
2006-12-04 18:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sanmigsean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋