my EX-best friend is such ..UGH...! to lame for words.
i hate her soooooooo mmuch. now, she is trying to steal my other friend! She is a lying BACKSTABBER! she spread rumors bout me, and now everybody hates me! she tells people that i call black people ( dark skined- african) jerks, now all the (colored ) people in my class think im a racist!! SHE IS SUCH A BYOTCH! MY OTHER FRIEND IS STARTING TO HATE ME AS THE SECOND!Daisy ( the byotch) is brain washin' her by the minute. I hate that lil tramp! well, now--> how can i be friends with my other nice friend while she is daisy 's friend ? ( also, everybody in my class belives that i curse and call colored people names, and they belive daisy, and nobody believes me - only my other colored friend Paris and Jessie) ---Daisy is mexican if it helps--
2006-12-04 10:14:26 · 19 answers · asked by shannon. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just talk to them and see why shes doing that
2006-12-04 10:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have time before class starts or before the teacher was in there? If you did, I'd write a speech or something & present it to the class, In it, I would say, " There have been some nasty rumors gpoing on about me - making me look awful. For all of you that got offended by the rumor Daisy started about me, I'm sorry. She's very angry at me right now & she's starting rumors & trying to break me away from my friend. I would NEVER EVER say anything rude about another race! I have plenty of friends that are not the same race as me. Please understand that I never said any of that." If you don't have time before class, do it in lunch or wherever you have time. I don't even know if you're considering this, but it would help with all the rumors she's starting.
Afterwards, talk to your friend. Say something like this, " How come you believed Daisy over me when you knew she was my ex-friend? I was a good friend of yours & you believed me over her." Walk off & let her think about it. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-04 10:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had that happen. Simply ignore it completely. Stay away from all those people and focus completely on you. It's funny because you seem a lot younger, but it still happens when you're older...so watch out for these people throughout your life.
Make friends with people who are not in the situation whatsoever. If everyone seems to be involved, learn to depend on yourself... don't let them get to you...and even if they do, don't show it. Build up your reputation once again, but don't worry too much about it at the same time.
I had one girl look so apologetic for starting so much drama...she would just stare and stare and stare...this other girl who spread bad news can't even make eye contact with me...she's that intimidated...and why you ask??
Because I simply never retaliated! Small brains like them never expect the person they hurt to not retaliate.
Good luck, lovely!
2006-12-05 21:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with that other girl, tell her that everything that Daisy says is a lie. If she's your real friend, she'll believe you. I get that this Daisy girl has got some real issues but there must be something you did to make her so mad. Apologize! Then pray for her. It's the best thing you can do to help your situation.
2006-12-04 10:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by pinknblacksox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u should convnve otha ppl to believe that ur not racist n that "Daisy" the Byotch is a Byotch n that she is makin rumours about u... Say if u were racist then y do u have coloured friends?
2006-12-04 10:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened to me before...don't trip! You can't convince anyone to believe you~they have to trust you and KNOW that you wouldn't do or say whatever it is that Daisy is acussing you of. Now depending on what kind of person you are I have 2 suggestions: 1. Say **** everybody and see what it feels like to be a loner for awile...people will start coming up to you if they see that you're not waisting your precious time on worthless bullshit. 2. Find a good time to broadcast the issue in front of everyone that might be involved...speak the truth get your point across and let people know that if they have any questions about something THE LIAR told them to just step to you and you'll be glad to answer their questions HONESTLY (even if you DID say something wrong. Stick up for yourself...even if you're alone.
Cheer up girlie~ Girls can be Very Messy!
2006-12-04 10:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nik Nak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes a hater and she's just jealous . If you do have a problem with black people than you should be honest . But if you don't have a problem with black people and they believe your ex-best friend then they were never your friends in the first place . Obviously they don't really know you so don't sweat issue. Live and Let Live
2006-12-04 10:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by speechless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, 'colored' is considered a racially disparaging label. African-American is what is accepted. Try being more culturally sensitive in your speech so people will know you aren't what your mean ex-friend claims. Just keep being kind to your friend and let her know that Daisy is lying. Good luck.
2006-12-04 10:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her out. Tell the class that she is lying and tell her friends that they can't trust her, because the same thing will happen to them. I hate when people feel better when they make other people feel like crap. She has low self esteem. I am going through the same thing at work right now and I am just ignoring the girl that started treating me like crap. Act like you don't care and that will really make her mad. Good Luck!
2006-12-04 10:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by KAB128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL PEOPLE THAT IF THEY WANNA BELIEVE SOME BS-ITTY RUMORS ABOUT YOU, GO AHEAD. BUT THEY AREN'T TRUE. DAISY HAS NO RIGHT TO SPREAD THOSE BAD THINGS ABOUT YOU AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET HER!!!!! CONFRONT HER STRAIGHT ON AND TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SICK AND TIRED OF THOSE RUMORS!!!! AND TELL PEOPLE WHO BELIEVED HER IF THEY ARE GOING TO BELIEVE YOU, THE PERSON WHO "SUPPOSEDLY" SAID ALL THOSE THINGS, OR JUST A PERSON THAT OLD THEM THAT???? THOSE PEOPLE ARE WAY TO GULLIBLE!!! ASK THEM IF THEY ARE GOING TO BELIEVE EVERYTHING THEY HEAR!!!
confront daisy and stand her straight up that you are not going to tolerate her spreading rumors!! and tell everyone that believed her are they going to believe everything they hear?!?!!?!!!? and if daisy is there, tell daisy to prove it! and if she makes up some lie...well back it up with a good good reason!
and also tell your other friend that she is leaving you just because if daisy and how you feel about this.
if she doesnt believe you about the rumors, say something like "you're my frien! dont you believe me?!?!"
good luck, i really hope this helps!! best wishes with this problem!
2006-12-04 10:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by C♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 03:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋