2006-12-04 10:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but sometimes the changes aren't that things improve in the marriage. Sometimes you change and the other person doesn't.
2006-12-04 11:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats life any relationship goes through the bad times and the good times. This helps because it allows you to realize things that you may be doing to cause fights etc. and ways you can help resolve them. Just remember this allow the lady to win most of the time and the less chance of the fight getting worse or she may just use it against you next time. Remeber women have the ability to use the past in everything most of us guys like to live in the present but well the ladies think the past is a good place to
be never expect a argument to be resolved until the lady feels like it is they will dwell on it until you want to blow your head off from all the frustration. Just so you know most ladies act this way
they do not get over the stupid crap as easy as us guys. We guys talk about it and then we feel okay its been resolved and lets carry -on with our lives's well it's NOT!
2006-12-04 18:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we all have to go through bad times in a relationship or marriage like i just found out when we take our vows we say for better or for worst and we never think about the worst until it happens but we always think about the better part and it might change you but also it will make you alot stronger and closer sad that it has to be that way but that is life
2006-12-04 18:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes. We have to take the good with the bad , Remember all the things in the vows, for better for worse, sometimes those things tell you alot about the person you are with and about yourself, how you handle a situation tells a lot about the integrity of a person. sometimes you will learn to respect and love your spouse more during the bad times than the good, bc of the way they handle things.
2006-12-04 18:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by becbec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. That's pretty much anything in life. If you don't have bad times, you can't appreciate when things are good.
The problem is when you have the same bad times over and over. Someones not doing something right; you need to step back, be honest with yourself and ask what's really going on.
2006-12-04 18:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...all marriages go through rough times...but u learn from those lessons and move on..communication is also a big part of marriage...if u dont have communication u wont have a good marriage
2006-12-04 18:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are bad more often than good, it means it is time to get out. Sometimes surviving through hard times can make the relationship stronger, but too many bad times means it's time to find someone who can make you happy.
2006-12-04 18:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. bad times teach couples more in depth lessons about the other person as well as yourself. considering the "bad times" it may very well change you. thing is...does it change you for the good or bad?
2006-12-04 18:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, but I think that's true of any facet of life. We do learn from our mistakes, and mistakes can be made by husbamds and wives as well as anyone else. Having to endure the aftermath of any mistake is how we learn and grow.
2006-12-04 18:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's growth between man and woman.
2006-12-04 18:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋