We were making out/groping. I am in my twenties and this is the first time I have ever kissed someone that much older than me. We didn't have sex and all of our clothes stayed on, but I am concerned that it took him 15 minutes to get an erection. Is that a normal time for a man of that age???
2006-12-04 10:11:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2006-12-04 10:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by epbr123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that's not normal.
I am 57 and get an erection in about 15 seconds, and that is with my wife who is also my age. With a young, amorous woman in her twenties showing attention and affection, the Little Soldier would be At Full Salute within 5 seconds for sure.
Have you read the book, "He's Just Not Into You"? You need to read it, because he's not into you at all. If he was, then you would have tripped his switch quickly. Move on without this guy. Even if you like him, he was just going through the motions with you.
2006-12-04 19:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well a lot of men much younger then that have ED. There are meds on the market now, cialis, Viagra, and I'm sure a couple others that will help him achieve it much better, stronger, and longer. It don't surprise me to hear this of him. Its life, and it happens. in fact, men in his age range are in a very high percentage of having ED. Tell him it is no big deal.
cialis lasts for up to a couple of days, meanwhile Viagra is a 4 hour time limit or close.
Have him to go to the doctor, get some cialis, because that stuff is wicked.....lol a LOT of younger people try to get it to enhance themselves.
2006-12-04 18:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends.there are a few things that may come into play.was he drinking and how much?is he married or has he just got out of a relationship?could he have problems with his blood sugar?he may be afraid that he will not be able to satisfy you because of the age thing.he is not gay or it never would have gone that far.there is something ,i do`nt know what.i`m 47 almost 48.just the thought of a girl in her twenties does something for me.my dad is 85 and he still thinks about it.
2006-12-04 18:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i varies... it depends if u are thinking about sex if u want to or now... i am 19, i can get an erection when ever or when i kiss my girl in order to have sex or anything in less than seconds.. and something i dont want to and even when she touch it i dont get the erection...so age has no position is the way u want it to be...but 99 i want the erection lol... just different people.
2006-12-04 19:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy is 43 it usually takes some type of physical or even visual stimulation to get a erection. Due to 25 years of sexual activity us old guys have learned to not get started until the real action starts.
Mark
2006-12-04 18:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by dr_mark_a_horn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am 34 and my husband is going to be 50. No that is not too long. But trust me, when or if you two do become intimate.....it rocks! They are old enough to have been around the block a few times and know that it's all about pleasing you. NOT THEM. Enjoy!!
2006-12-04 18:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by jj2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm 43 and I get going pretty fast. But at the same time I won't get fully erect just kissing my wife unless I know it is going to lead to sex.
2006-12-04 18:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps his mind was thinking about his daughter being your age.....someone HIS age making out with HIS daughter might make him a bit slow to perk up.
2006-12-04 19:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by #1 "Abuela" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do i need to know about your age difference and your sex life? Just wondering. And w/ out clothes and no touch touchy i dont think this is normal. Consult a doctor and run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 18:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by zacharydai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not a young man and can control himself better than a young man. This is not a bad thing, TRUST ME!!!! Better than losing it quickly.
2006-12-04 18:14:22 · answer #11 · answered by Lori N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋