Ok i was with my ex 4 about 3 yrs and yesterday we broke up.. i gave him everithing i was always there 4 him in good and bad but guess what he didn't know how to apreciated me, we were living together but i decided to go back with my family because he wasn't helping me with bills or anything, I STILL FILL BAD AND SAD BUT HOW CAN I FORGET HIM AND START A NEW LIFE???.. I FEEL LIKE I CAN'T DO IT.. BUT I REALLY WANNA FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON ... HELP ME WITH ADVISES THANK U!!!
XOXO
2006-12-04 10:09:14 · 8 answers · asked by morenitaskandalosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it was only yesterday - give it time. You will forget him; it won't happen overnight, but it WILL happen as you engage in other things. Reach out to your friends and family, they will be happy to support you through the rough times. Nearly everyone has gone through a traumatic experience at some point in their lifetimes, this is something all people can relate to. Sounds like you made the right decision to stand up for yourself; I guarantee that one day you will look back and feel thankful you did.
2006-12-04 10:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a long time, and if you feel he doesn't appreciate you there is no need to be with him any longer. In my opinion he probably took advatage of you since you did and gave this guy everything. He probably thought you wouldn't leave him but you sure proved him wrong when you did leave. If a man isnt helping with any of the bills then he isn't much of a man at all.. I think you did the right thing leaving. He doesn't deserve a women like you. You might feel bad about leaving him and all but what you have to understand is that he is a grown man, he needs to take care of himself. DO you girl dont ever feel like you cant do anything, because if u really wanted to start a new life without him you can do it. good luck
2006-12-04 18:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Penelope101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give a guy everything that you have you are hurting yourself. I'm sorry to say this, but it just makes it easier for a guy to use you. It can also damage your reputation and make you sound easy. He probably didn't appreciate because you never took time for yourself so it wasn't something that was done out of the bottom of your heart it was just a habit. I'm not trying to sound mean but that is just what happens in most cases like yours. I would try moving on as soon as possible. Don't waste your life moping about some guy when you could be out there get the guy of your dreams! Besides you should never cry over someone who won't cry over you!
~Hope This Helps~ Baylie L
2006-12-04 18:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by baylie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you've been with him for so long so he has been a part of your life. The fact is, he is not a good person for you and so you should be proud of the decision you've made to move on without him. The feelings that you feel are normal but you will get over them and you should. You need to be with someone who will appreciate what you do for them and will be good to you and help share responsibilities. You've made the right decision - don't look back!
2006-12-04 18:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that your Ex sounds like a bit of a loser he should have been helping with everything you are right to feel that he did not appreciate you and you are also right to have moved on please stop feeling bad there are many guys out there that will treat you right so carry-on with your life and God Bless.
2006-12-04 18:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sorry, but why did you stay so long!? I would of left long time ago. Men are just like women, if you find a good one, granted their going to take advantage of you. That's where balance plays a crucial role. Don't give your love so easily, your worth more than your claiming.
2006-12-04 18:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that trying to find another guy who makes you happy really helps. My ex left me after only 3 months, I'm yound, hah, and she was in your situation. It kills me still, but I try moving on... I know it worked for that b****. Damn slu7. With a dif guy every week. Anyways... heh,should help. Try going out to clubs and dancing with like 10 guys, might help.
2006-12-06 19:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by sk8pat777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things take time to move on.
2006-12-04 18:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋