2006-12-04 09:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, it is not at all.
I would find someone to talk to, therapist, religious leader, counselor...etc.
Good luck!
2006-12-04 10:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not healthy... That's a long time.
There again, I still think a lot about a relationship that ended over a decade ago, even though I've (mostly) moved on since.
This time of year puts a lot of pressure on people to be happy, and there's also the weirdness of another year passing. That kind of throws up the past by association.
I'd go out and buy some really indulgent bath products(maybe from Lush) and if a long bath (and maybe a self-pedicure) doesn't work go through the phone book and find a councilling service.
2006-12-04 17:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by internits 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the one you loved was a soulmate or you would not be having these deep feelings yet. I know of women who still haven't gotten over losing a love after 8 years. One from Fla is still upset after 11 years and another after 3. But in all these cases they considered the other woman to be their soulmate. I can relate. It could be a mild case of depression brought on by the breakup. Do you still communicate withthis person? It sounds like you might need closure. But then, I have heard of cases where the couple gets back together and lives happily, after being apart for years. I wish you well.
2006-12-04 21:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get over it. This is the time to introduce the saying "There are plenty more fish in the sea".
2006-12-04 17:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be a sign of morbid depression. I advise you to seek a counselor.
2006-12-04 18:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still cry over relationships i had over two decades ago! it's just life - love is a rollercoaster and sometimes it makes you sick, still, we wouldn't be without it - would we? blessings, Lilith
2006-12-04 17:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by lilith 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would get a new relationship and not cry anymore and be happy again
2006-12-04 17:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Susan R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the person has not truly forgiven the past relationship,he or she has not let go.
2006-12-04 17:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Every one is different and different people have different rates at which they are able to "move on."
2006-12-04 17:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think so...maybe you should see a therapist about your unresolved issues.
2006-12-04 17:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋