since I was 14. I am 23 now and more mature. When I was 18, we had a huge argument and it was my fault. He never hit me or anything like that, he simply told me how he felt. I, being my age, acted stupidly and chose to never speak to him again. That was 5 years ago. I got married shortly afterwards and had two children. Now I am divorcing and have been seeing the man I used to be with for a few months now. He was living with his ex wife (they were still friends) and invited me over to spend some time talking. We talked for hours. After a few visits of this, one thing led to another. His ex, on the other hand, didn't like it that he was talking to me. She told him, after we talked on the phone that first time, to never talk to me again. He refused. I don't know why, that's one question. Since then, he got a 1 bedroom apartment just in case my children and I move in with him (his words). I honestly love him. I've been keeping him company at the new place until he's
2006-12-04 09:31:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
settled. He tells me things like how he wants me there with him and stuff, but also knows I am going through a divorce and won't say exactly how he feels. I asked him flat out one time if he loves me, and he kissed me and said "Time will tell". I know I hurt him big time before, but he's not really the type to hold things against somebody. He actually blames himself for what went wrong, and I keep telling him he doens't have to because it's my fault. I have apologized. That first time we sat and talked, he said stuff along the lines of he wants children in the future (my children were there and we were playing with them) and that I will always be part of him no matter what. He also likes to do things for me (not money wise, more like helping with every little thing). He said that meeting me long ago was a blessing. He also, one time we were in the bed, said he loved me, and this wasn't in passion. That's why I asked him if he loved me in the first place. So, is it love or not
2006-12-04 09:31:22 · update #1
He is already moved out. He is living in that apartment.
2006-12-04 09:41:30 · update #2
I say yes but you really can't blame him for being so cautious when it comes to you. He is really afraid of being hurt again by you and I think that you should take it slow and not rush him.... i would not push the issue with him and just enjoy your time together. You yourself should not really want to move right in with him right as soon as your divorce is over... Take it slow and I think that you will have a much better outcome. Good luck to you. Happy Holidays.
2006-12-04 09:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to want to be cautious. Maybe it is, but wait until your divorce is final before you deal with that. Make sure his divorce is final. After all the legal garbage is dealt with, then ask him again. He may be more willing to answer you then.
2006-12-04 17:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woooooh, Nellie. Are you kidding me? He still lives with his ex wife? He got a 1-bedroom in CASE you and your kids move in? Why doesn't HE move into it now?
This is ridiculous. I have never heard of anything so silly. If he won't leave the ex wife, I can tell you he is still in love and probably still having sex with her. Come on now. You need to dump him and move on.
2006-12-04 17:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i dont get this LOOONG story. What you want to know from us if WE think he loves you? umm i think you know th eanswer to that. What are you waiting for
2006-12-04 17:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it probably isn't
2006-12-04 17:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think he is serious if he had sex with you in a bed .
2006-12-04 17:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by pqueen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋