2006-12-04 09:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don't to change you. Why would we want to change someone if we fell in love with them from the start? We just want you to be sensitive and talk to us. We like communication. You give us honesty and commitment, then there won't be any need for you to think we are 'changing you'.
2006-12-04 09:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we women like certain things about a man and some of us think that we can mold a man into what we want and after a while that man will get tired and leave or be unfaitful....
I have seen a lot of women trying to be some men mother's and not their bestfriend, lover's or their soulmates....
I think that since there is a shortage of men, some women feel like time is running out or think we can become their mothers and not their life partners...
It always end up in divorce or bad breakups...
I wish our women realize that we are deserving of a good man and wait for the person whom GOD has for us to come and stop settling with some makeshift man that you created....
2006-12-04 10:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some things you guys really don't do until we come together as one, but we do that too. It's a since of what if. It's better to try and change now than when its to late. Trust me my man was a drug dealer and I begged him to stop or we'll break up, the day I said it the police almost locked him up. I went outside and told them that he was only around here to take me to work. After that he quite. Our relationship is damned good now because of that incident. Women need to stop lieing and just keep it real.
2006-12-04 09:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cinnamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. They fall in love for who, what and how you are, then after the relationship is solid (marriage), all you hear is you need to do this and be like that nag nag nag, stop doing this and act like that....I feel ya buddy, but I have not clue #1 why.
2006-12-04 09:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does every guy think that.what it is we want you guys to act right. and most of the time it depends on how old you are and the women. most young women do. a women my age don't. we don't have time for that. and one day these women will realize you can't change no one. and you guys need to learn how to act right when you have a girlfriend.
2006-12-04 09:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the saying "Women marry men hoping to change them and men marry women hoping they'll stay the same" :-)
2006-12-04 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their initial basis of attraction was looks & charisma and
they soon realize that character & personality are more important.
2006-12-04 09:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we change, we are no longer the guy sahe fell in love with, we no longer to need to act all sweet and cute, we are already getting LAID, so we become azzez, they just want the guy they fell in love with to begin with
2006-12-04 09:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by pooteo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its clear they don't know what they want.
2006-12-04 09:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋