It only occurs during penetration and it is like he is hitting something. It happens at many angles. It is not a lack of lubricant. This has happened for years and the doctors are not able to find anything. Any ideas what's wrong?
serious answers only please.
2006-12-04 09:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by Barbie W 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it happens every time and it is up front up high.
2006-12-04 09:09:13 · update #1
You might just have an extra sensitive G-spot. It is located about 2 inches inside the vagina up front. Make sure you are really ready (lots & lots of foreplay) before he enters you. Sometimes it's not just about lube on him.......your whole place down there needs it.
If this doesn't help, I'm sorry. Sexual problems can be difficult to identify. Did you go to a sex doctor or just a gyno? It can make a difference..........good luck. I'm proud of you for looking for answers instead of just giving up.
2006-12-04 09:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Fine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was going to say fibroid tumors but sence youve been checked and know its not that i would probly say you have a long and narrow cervix. and thats what is being hit. i also have this problem i cant stand for my legs to be up very high it hurts, and i can handle doggy style as long as i dont push my butt out to far other wise it hurts. i went to the dr. and thats all she said it was cause everything else was normal. i still enjoy sex just not some positions where my bf goes in too far. and my boyfriend is average sized,and if your bf has a bigger than average then that probly causes more pain and be more uncomfortable. and there isnt rally anything you can do for it you just have to experiament with more positions and find some that are enjoyable that dont hurt. i have never looked this up before but i found a link that might help both of us
2006-12-04 17:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be short on the inside not all women are the same just as men are not the same length. I can't believe your doctor has not figured that out. I was with a man that was too long for me at he had to use some self control and not push all the way. Sorry you are having problems but you are not alone there are many ladys that have that problem
2006-12-04 17:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I encountered the same issue recently and I had fibroid tumors. I've also heard some STD's or endometriosis can cause painful sex. Does it happen every time? Is the pain in the front up high? or is it down low when he enters you? I'm so sorry for you that you've had to endure this for years.
2006-12-04 17:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by blu_eyed_blonde1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is painful sex unless your partner is rough in bed and do not know how to be gentle or caress a body. Girls think they get pain but it is actually a nerve where the male penetrates on that particular spot ,almost like if it is a weak spot in the human body. a common sensitive spot that most males do not actually hit it all trhe time. Painful sex ? Nooo!!! That is just a pleasure on what women feel , a great orgasm or should my sister say" Out of this world, Damn".... Painful sex if you experience it alot, then that means that your partner is rough and that is not love. My best advice and answer I can give to you....
2006-12-04 17:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by ltnscorpionking 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i have much pain also when i have sex.when i get penetrated i almost lose it as the pain is hurting so bad,i tried lots of lube and all that did was made me greasy..my boyfriend left me because of it ;but if i have to be in awfully handful pain;then i have to quit;;;doctors cannot find anything either,
2006-12-04 17:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem the doc told me to have a hymenictomy because I am built to small
2006-12-04 17:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by hotcandysmacker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you gone to more than one doctor? It sounds like you need a second opinion. I would also try and see a FEMALE OBGYN about this.
2006-12-04 17:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your cervix, if he hits that it can be very painful. Try not to go too deep. If its not that, maybe you have a tilted uterus? I dont know a whole lot about that but it sounds like what your talking about.
2006-12-04 17:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by swtgrlm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has a large penis, it is probably penetrating painfully b/c it is being inserted deep, this is supposed to feel a little uncomfortable at first but it should begin to feel great, just tell him to take it slower and not to bang, if that is in fact what he is doing. sorry about that, I would tell him to slow down.
2006-12-04 17:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋