2006-12-04 08:58:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ummm no get on with ur life and move on
2006-12-04 09:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's not normal to still break down, u should have moved a little farther by now. u still haven't moved on, and u feel there is still some unfinished business. we have to know when to let go, when we can't do anything to change things. we also have to know that it's not our falt. sometimes there is no closure, and to try and understand just isn't going to be possibble. u must stop having any expectations about the relationship, that this person is ever going to feel remorse for what they did to u, as they may live by a different belief system, and a different set of rules. we must be careful what we tell ourselves, because it is what we tell ourselves that we believe. you should find a group that deals with grief, sounds as if u are stuck in the grief part , and never accepted the truth. the truth is painful, especially if we think we did something to cause it, whatever the hurt is, forgive them, and forgive yourself, nothing can be done to change it now. just have to go on, your wasting your life and grieving over someone who will never come back. sometimes in life people get hurt, and blame themselves for whatever happened, so forgive yourself for whatever, and live your life.
2006-12-04 17:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cry ed for 3 yrs after my first marriage ended. i thought something was wrong with me. i use to prey and bag God for it to stop and one day i got up from bed and open up my living room widow certains and looked out side and for some reason i was able to small the air and the sky looked so clear and i knew that was the day i was done crying. i cry ed everyday for 3 yrs. and when i ask people was it normal for a person to cry everyday for 2 or 2 half or 3 yrs because i asked several times there answer were no that person needs help they didn't know i was asking for myself. going though that i believe it's normal to the person going though it. no one can tell a other person how to feel no one knows that person heart, but God and it will be God to deliver that hurt.
2006-12-04 17:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it depends on how the relationship ended. It is certainly possible to cry over someone you loved (perhaps still love) deeply. What is important to realize is that you may be so caught up in what you had with this person that you never really give anyone else a chance.
2006-12-04 17:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by momof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest...no. I mean u can look back and think about it, but i mean 2 and a half years ago? what u need to do is find someone who will love u like u need to be loved, and that would make u forget about the heartbreak. If that person isnt crying over u, then u shouldnt shed tears for that person either.
2006-12-04 17:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will say yes because when I was in college, my 2nd semester freshman year I met this guy name David...When I first saw him, I freaked out....I then started seeing him with one of my friends, but she was his mentor...
I met him one night and the connection we had was so strong til I could walk in front of his dorm and he will come running out.....It was a connection like no other..we felt as if we knew each other forever...
Make a long story short, he came down without his parents consent and did not have the money to pay for school so he had to go home...
I cried for a long time and listened to Stephanie Mills old CD, that song "Home"....
It took a long time to get over him..I tried and tried but no matter who I was seeing his memory would not leave...
I sometimes wonder what he's doing today, because the emotional feelings we had towards each other and the strong connection, without thinking about being together sexually was incredible...
I think I lost my Soulmate in college....
Wish you luck because in time, you will heal but you will never forget......
2006-12-04 19:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it too sometimes. i used to go out with a guy four years ago, we broke up over a stupid thing, after sometime we got back together. after a few weeks he told me that while we were apart, he had sex with a girl and got her pregnant, he wanted the child and didn't want it to be raised up without a father so he went with that girl. he had a daughter and she is 3 now. we are still friends and sometimes after i talk to him, i cry and i am sad that things had to be like this. but now i moved on and now i am in a steady relationship. i think you too have to move on now and find somebody else. good luck, take care and god bless :)
2006-12-04 17:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. 2 and a half months maybe. You are stuck in the past. Move on already, why have you wasted two and half years of your life, that is sad.
2006-12-04 17:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes ... it is normal specailly if you never had closer! May you are feeling guilty or thinking it was your fault.... you can not change what you did or didn't do! Cry it out and get over it ... time to move on if you are ever going to be happy again!
2006-12-04 17:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But you are crying over what you wanted it to be and not what it was or it would still be. Move on
2006-12-04 17:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It sounds like a broken heart.
I'd try and find an organization to volunteer in. That can distract you and help you to feel better.
2006-12-04 17:10:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋