ex is a lesbian, so why does she till want me in her life?

Question

Sorry if this is long but i need some advice. in 96 i met a 20 yr old and we hit it off great. 4 months later she moved in with me. Then I got her a job as my assitant at work. things seemed so great. we did everything together, a real 24/7 couple. in summer of 03 we got mairred. we meet a new couple and became friends, 6 months later in april my wife left me for the female of the couple friends. a few months later the two women had there on place. in febuary the other lady went back to her hubby. in june of 06 my wife and i devorced. My ex now with her 3rd g/f since breaking my heart. still calls and e-mails me. still wants to hang out sometimes. even with her lesbian lover right there. Do you think she wants to come home or is she just wants to be friends. I don't know how i could ever trust her again. I do know this. she was broke as a joke before me. together under my guide we made 130K per year. since she left me she is always broke. evicted type broke so maybe thats it

Answer 1

I'd be a realist....your wife left you for another woman. I wouldn't give her a 2nd chance. You can always get another woman. Plus I would sever ties from her just on the fact that she left you for another woman!!

Answer 2

You really just need to be good friends because believe it or not she will always be a lesbian and you should only accept that from her. Even if she wants more from you, you may end up w/ a broken heart again.

Answer 3

Could be she just wants to be friends with you, could be she still has feelings for you, could be she just likes the money, could be she doesn't know what she likes or is doing. There is only one way your going to find out, ask her.

Answer 4

I think you should stay friends..I don't think she wants much more than that...maybe she wants you close to become a sperm donor...mybe maybe not......Maybe she make come back....stay her friend and only time can tell....