meet a guy who doesn't like me i haven't meet him and hes lied about me and said some rude things but i forgave him and she told me today that we shouldn't be friends any more because she needs to make things work with him he is 24 and she 31 so i was wondering what would u say to her i'am so hurt, i not want to say the wrong thing ????????? she told me no one will come between us.
2006-12-04 08:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by amber h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know that im kind of young to be answering your problems since your around 31 and im only 14 but it seems like she isnt really a true friend if she would choose a guy she just met over someone she has known for 10 years. i have seen this happen to people at my own school and once they are broken up she will go crawling back to you because she has no one else as close as you to turn to. She will be so depressed about the break up that she will need someone to lean on. i also think that you should make a plan to go out to lunch with her and talk face to face about what you are feeling, explain to her that you are hurt about the situation and that you don't want a man to come between your friendship, if she is a true friend she will understand where your comming from and will forgive you good luck :) hope it works out
2006-12-04 08:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll be back..after he messes with her head a little more..he's a controlling type of guy it sounds like and no telling what he's saying to her to make her insecure and all that...
be there for her when he dumps her and she's feeling bad..she'll need a friend and that should be you.....
2006-12-04 16:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she wants to be with a controlling posessive a$$ hole then that's her decision but tell her you hope she has someone else's shoulder to cry on when he breaks her heart because she chose him over you.
2006-12-04 17:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is stupid for leaving you for that guy. Hes young for her so she is so stupid and insecure and she dosenot want loose him. All I can say is that move on and dont talk to her anymore.
2006-12-04 16:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad. its her boyfreinds fault say that no one was supposed to come between us and u let ur boyfriend.
2006-12-04 16:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by sup yo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with blondi
2006-12-04 16:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋