who continually tells others that you are spoilt. Here is the situation; a young 30 year old in a very high profile position working her butt of to be the independent person she is and then she finds out that there is one person who likes to tell others in the office that she is a spoilt brat. How would you handle this situation?
2006-12-04 08:46:10 · 18 answers · asked by Mariachi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for the misspelled word however I was implying the word spoilt, not spoiled. It is in the dictionary, but thanks for the thoughts!
2006-12-04 08:59:58 · update #1
I would pull her into your office privatly and have a sit down talk letting her know you are hearing these things. and point out you arn't pleased and do explain your work ethics to her. and if she's jelous of you this could be one of the reasons. But in a work inviroment its always best if you can handle these htings on your own without the boss getting involved he hasn't got time for this stuff.
I know it botheres you. but you will have to rise above her pettyness and continue showing yourself and others that you are exactly that a hard worker and dedicated to your work. and others will make there own conclusions by your actions. you can't be baby sitting everyones thoughts on how they portray you.. You know your being honest at your work. its not like y\our sleeping to get ahead. your doing this on your own merrit.
I find people like her will be jelous of different things in life if it wasn't you she'd pick the prettiest woman there and say she had some job done to her body or that she's stuck up. you just have to have broad shoulders sometimes and look at the source who is giving out this crap of information. Be sure in yourself and continue doing a good job. people like her will stay at the bottom in life . you continue on wth your path in life
2006-12-04 17:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in preserving along with your Wizard of Oz subject matter, I'm going to suggest probably the most following: one million. Drop a condo on her. two. Throw a fireball at her. three. Send an military of flying monkeys to dismember her. four. Lock her in a tower with a colossal hourglass filled with purple sand and advise that she will die whilst her time runs out, however do not display what the purpose of her demise probably. or, I wager you COULD simply stab her within the eye. Although if probably extra humane to make use of the FINE POINT pen. If, nonetheless, you may have a area of poppies, do not waste them on Dorothy. Send the ones immediately to me.
2016-09-03 12:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You expect us to believe you are a 30 year old in a high profile position and you can't spell "spoiled"? I'm guessing he's right.
2006-12-04 08:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wouldn't have asked this in marriage and divorce to start with.
Second, I'd probably go to the co-worker and ask what makes her think that you are spoiled, see if you can work it out with her.
Finally, I'd probably use the spell check to ensure I've spelled spoiled correctly.
2006-12-04 08:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the right topic? anyway you need to remain focused on the big picture, if you play your cards right someday you will be the boss and then you can just fire that azz
lol javelin you wrong 4 that lol
2006-12-04 08:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally thing she is jealous of how independent you are, i think you should bring it to her attention that you don't appreciate her making comments like that, because it is really uncalled for and unneccesary and it makes you feel uncomfortable.
2006-12-04 08:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by yomyr2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore her and keep doing what I'm doing. The people who matter know your working hard for it and the others who are jealous dont matter.
2006-12-04 08:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work your butt off as usual. People will eventually see you for who you are.
2006-12-04 09:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering why you are letting mere coworkers bother you so much....geez...grow up!
lots of people work thier "butts off" by the way, that isn't something you somehow invented.....
2006-12-04 09:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her it seemsthat she is jealous of the person that is higher then her. That person has earned her position.
2006-12-04 08:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋