my in-laws live out of town and are moving into town, they have been having problems and my mother inlaw is very sensitive, they are buying a house in town and went to see the relitor and she said somthing about moving their stuff from the old house to the new, he got mad at her in front of the relitor and said that she embarised him.and that none of whats going on with the house or money is any of her buisness she slaped him becasuse she was upset and didn't want to hear all the bad things he had to say about her anymore, and now he says he's done that he's taking all of their money and leaving her with nothing and she can do things on her own so now she is going to be living with me and my husband. im usually respectable person and dont talk rudly to my inlaws but i feel that this has gone on to long and that he needs to see a doctor or somthing. he is an all around a** hole. should i tell him where to go and where to put it??
2006-12-04 08:33:32 · 14 answers · asked by hodgy_podgy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, I don't think that's a good idea. I think it's between the two of them. Even though your husband might agree, its one thing for him to talk about his parents, but if you start doing it, I don't think it would go over so good.
Besides all the things he said are untrue, he will not be able to take everything from her. There are laws to prevent this, its called community property. Leave things alone and keep out of it.
2006-12-04 08:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What purpose would it serve? Just to make you feel better, and strain the relationship between you and your husband. I don't see the point. I'm sure his wife already knows he's a jerk. Now, if he pulls any crap with you, then you can slap his *** back.
2006-12-04 08:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you got the judgement of him correct, no doubt about that. It's probably not your place to tell him what he is. It's their problem and they need to work it out. It is, BTW, NOT a good idea for her to move in with you for anything thing other than emergency short term. He's got to support her and she needs a good attorney quickly to nail his hide to the wall.
2006-12-04 08:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the in-laws are a perfect match. You get involved, you become part of the problem.
And don't let her move in, you don't know what problems are YET!
2006-12-04 08:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is aweful. I hope your husband is nothing like his father! Tell your father-n-law what you think! After all you are taking in his wife.
2006-12-04 08:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by MC 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should enroll in spelling and grammar classes. This may help the situation.
2006-12-04 08:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep ur mouth shut...this isnt ur problem and u should stay out of it...if it bothers ur husband let him take care of his father
2006-12-04 08:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were you i would tell to get help and that he needs to learn that its not right to treat people that way.And then call him a**hole and slap him.. lol hope it helps!
2006-12-04 08:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by blue_is_cool2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should, but don't be too b*tchy about it. because he will still be your father-in-law after you tell him what you have to say.
2006-12-04 08:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother and cause trouble
2006-12-04 09:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋