Just because your signs are not compatible does not mean it won't work out. For one there are many, many signs besides your sun sign and you can have compatibility in several other key places. Also, Compatibility just tells you how well your personalities reflect each other. Any sign can work with another, just know that the lower the compatibility, the more work and compromises there will have to be. Gemini/Cancer is not a good combination but if you both love each other and are willing to do what it takes then you can have a fulfilling relationship that is very special because of all the work & love you put into it. Just makes sure that you're both willing to work hard at it because one person can't carry the load. Don't let astrology rule your decisions. Think of it as a helpful source of information, not a guideline for your life.
2006-12-04 08:18:03
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answered by Anonymous
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You are a Cancer, Your lover is a Gemini
The vortex of energy that your sparkling Gemini lover created around you was no doubt what initially attracted you to them. You'll love Geminis' ease in social situations, the many friends and contacts they'll bring your way, their curiosity, and articulate, lively conversation skills. Gemini are on top of everything new and current. But can you sustain the attraction?
Cancers thrive on togetherness, closeness, and strong emotions. Gemini, on the other hand, are cool, detached and elusive. You are sympathetic and compassionate, while they remain objective and somewhat distant, thriving on intellectual opinions rather than feelings. Geminis' initial remoteness and mystery may pose an intriguing challenge at first, but soon you will tire of the fact that they are always out of reach. True live wires, all their movements are quick, which could ultimately wear your nerves to a frazzle. A mutable sign, they are more flexible than you -- this can be an asset, for they will adjust to your varying moods quite well.
In bed, these whiz kids are verbal and witty, but your mood is often more serious and deep. They might not be able to groove on your emotional level. Gemini experience life on the surface, approaching it with a lighter touch, and are unable (or unwilling) to dig to the depths you regularly explore. Their penchant for analyzing everything -- including sex -- could seem cold, emotionally superficial, or just too much for you. They need variety and resist commitment, while you are just the opposite; you love routine and stability. The more your lover resists your possessiveness, the more clingy and needy you will become, so be aware of this.
Your lover has an adventurous spirit. Let him or her use it to get you out of your shell. In turn, increase your Gemini's emotional spectrum by showing him or her how to be at once vulnerable and safe with you. This relationship can work if you are aware of your differences, and are willing to work them out.
2006-12-04 11:55:35
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answered by ~NEO~ 4
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"Cancer + Gemini
Water + Air = Rain
Being a Cancer, ruled by the Moon, you are sensitive and emotional. You feel rather than think. Gemini is more intellectual and thoughtful, living in the head rather than the heart. This difference between you will have to be bridged if you are to build a deep and meaningful relationship.
Maybe it’s simply a matter of both of you accepting that the other is vastly different, and each of you handling the aspects of life suited to your personality. That way, the relationship stands a chance of lasting.
This difference was clear in the relationship between actors Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. Nicole is an intellectual girl. Analysis would be her forte. Tom relates to people in a far more sensitive and emotional way.
Geminis find it difficult to get their emotions involved, even in love and sex. You want to connect with Gemini’s heart, but this could be too hard — their brain dominates them in everything. From Gemini’s point of view, if you fail to connect with them intellectually, they will lose interest.
They have a hard time learning about non-verbal means of communicating. You may be the star sign that can teach them this new level of understanding. So while you are not a perfect match, you can learn much from each other.
You will appeal to Geminis who want to communicate their deepest feelings. If you can, stay away from the bedroom until you have a good social and cultural connection with them. If you use this connection as a foundation, rather than sex, you have a better chance of surviving deeper romantic involvement.
Tread warily in the money minefield with any Gemini you’re romantically linked to.
Be particularly careful in this area with Geminis born between 22 May and 1 June — your views on money will be poles apart. It may seem odd to talk about money, about your financial philosophy, with someone at the start of a relationship, but you both need to understand where the other stands. If you avoid the issue you could run into problems that will undermine your relationship.
Those born between 2 June and 12 June will be better suited as friends than lovers. This is because Venus strongly rules your friendship sector. You are likely to feel an immediate attraction to them — they radiate strength and sensuality.
Take care with Geminis born between 13 June and 21 June. You are strongly attracted to these people sexually, but you need a strong emotional and material base to make this work long term. Gemini is, after all, a rather flighty star sign, and you need a security and stability.
The excitement a Gemini brings to your life is undeniable, but remember, no honeymoon lasts forever. Compromise is the key word if the two of you are going to make this combination work."
2006-12-04 15:04:38
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answered by sweet_leaf 7
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Go here....this website will help you out a lot. Just found it this weekend. I am a Virgo and my fiance is a Gemini and we are not compatible but that doesn't mean you are not meant to be. You may have some fights...my fiance and I do; but we still love each other. Focus more on the traits of your sign and his as well. If you do that, you will have a better understanding.
2006-12-04 08:22:50
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answered by Anonymous
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skip horoscopes if you want to belive in horoscopes then u should only believe them when hey talk about your life not love life if you really like this person go with them and c how that turns out..:)
2006-12-04 13:00:53
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answered by ~>*Rhythmic Heart*<~ 1
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Go for it!
And forget about horoscopes and others... you know what.
2006-12-04 08:16:19
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answered by rollodecriente 4
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