what would you want out of a women you married?
2006-12-04 08:03:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
quit giving her reasons to nag !
2006-12-04 08:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a woman points the obvious out to a man then naturally he thinks she is nagging him. I found ways to get my point across to my husband without nagging him to do things. Some things I just do myself. There are other things that I really need him to take care of sometimes and I just tell him I know you are tired from working and you need some relaxing time, but when you feel rested enough will you take out the trash or check the oil in the car. If it is something that I have trouble getting him to do, then I just tell him that I was going to ask his buddy to come over and look at the dryer.....and oh boy that really gets him moving them. Either way my life has been easier. I don't have to nag and everything is getting done.
2006-12-04 16:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Laugh.
I'm serious. My wife use to try and nag me into doing something and I would laugh and say "that completely lacks originality doesn't motivate me in the least. How about next time you try it in a black thong and thigh high boots?" If she tries to continue I would give her immediate feed on better stance of tone of intimidation. Or I would play shrink with questions like "Where do think all the anger comes from? Why is it that you try to make yourself a nagging housewife when clearly you lack the nagging gene. Sorry your times up. Some time next week. Good Bye. " I think my wife tries to nag me now a days to see what I'll do next. It can't be to get me to do anything because it doesn't work unless I'm not feeling well and then she stops me and tells me to take it easy and does it herself. HEY, I JUST REALIZED THAT ONE!!! Ooooo! I have another way to play it.
2006-12-04 16:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Funny you should ask. We want our wives to be more like our mothers. The younger generation, thanks to our society, is making the woman more independant. The ideal wife, would not have to work. Her only job would be to take care of the home, take care of the children, and take care of her husband. That's the problem with America today. Most of us are so eager to make money that we send our wive's to go work and help make more of it. Not understanding that the one's loosing here are us, our children are being raised by babysitters, who usually dont' have children themselves. Our children are not being shown how to act in society and are getting out of control.
We want a woman who (just like the song) We bring home the bacon, they fry it up in a pan, and never never never let us forget we are the man!
So the ideal woman, would greet us when we come home from work. With a huge *** kiss and hug saying "I missed you while you were working"! Then say, I've got dinner on the table, the children have been good today, they missed you too! When dinner is finished, we both spend quality time with our children. Then relax for a while when the children are in bed, watching our favorite shows that we TIVOED. Then turn the lights down and bring out the massage oils for a couple hours of passion.
2006-12-04 16:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men say women are naging when they are looking for an excuse to not like. My ex seemed as though she was naging to me because I was unhappy and didn't want to be there. My current girlfriend doesn't nag but rather offers suggestions/advice because I value her opinion.
See the difference. Value opinion - like Nag- don't want to hear your trap?
2006-12-04 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tired to figure out the "source" of the nagging.??
2006-12-04 16:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's nagging b/c you sit on your butt all day and do nothing. It depends on what she's nagging about.
2006-12-04 16:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start listening to her then she won't have to nag
2006-12-04 16:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
husbands can pick up after themselves with out being asked and they can act like grown men and not little boys or teenagers.
I know not all men behave this way but the one I'm married to does
2006-12-04 16:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change the way u see her, and view her and she will look quite a bit different to u. be the man she wants, it isn't all about what u want. maybe if u gave more she would also give.
2006-12-04 18:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋