im only in the sixth grade, and there is soo much drama. im really skinny, and they call me anorexic and bulimic. it hurts, plus ppl say that they r my friends and the they'll turn around and say "OMG shes sooo annoying" and i have no idea wut to do!
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2006-12-04 08:01:08 · 10 answers · asked by LiL mZ sMiLeZ ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
without being a snitch
2006-12-04 09:05:44 · update #1
Do your own thing sweetie. Who cares about them. They're jealous of your body. Don't let yourself be around that poison. Tell them to fvck off and then go find some real friends.
2006-12-04 08:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, they are not your friends if they are hurting you that way. And I am sorry to say, people can be mean, especially kids. Everyone looks for ways to keep people down and make them feel worthless. It doesn't matter if you are skinny, fat, tall or short. There is so much more to a person then their appearance alone. Keep your head up and allow them to talk because you will find a "true" friend that will care for you and respect you no matter what. I know these words I am saying doesn't do anything for the pain they are causing you and I cannot make that hurt go away. But what I am hoping it does, is give you strength. Honey, I was picked on too and I am sure THEY are picked on as well. Even the most beautiful or so-called popular kids, have someone else that picks on them too. Keep that in mind when they are giving you grief.
Stand tall and keep your head up.
Good Luck
2006-12-04 16:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun im a Junior at my highschool! And believe me all that crap just keeps getting worse! When i was in 8th grade people thouhght that i was anorexic and bulimic too and it hurt because really there was nothing i could do about it. I was really active in sports but at the same time i ate a TON of junk food! ANd in jr.High and Middle school ppl talk a whole bunch of crap!! EVEN those that say they're your friends. My advice to you is that you dump those so called friends and keep the ones that havent said anything bad bout you and that have been with on your side since day 1!! Good luck hun and i wish you all the best!!
2006-12-04 16:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it (as much as possible) - and make some new true friends. Keep smilin'.
They are just jealous. Have fun, enjoy middle school and learn to overlook the drama.
I am a grown woman and it happens in the workplace, no different! I have my set of real friends, but I am friendly to all. You know the truth about yourself. Let the truth set you free..
All the best to you.
2006-12-04 16:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by what's up? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they talk about u behind ur back, they r not ur friends. You should find some quality friends that won't say stuff about you. As far as the skinny thing, just start eating more and weight lifting. Ignore all the other crap.
2006-12-04 16:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw sweetie.You will learn in this life that there are people who like to hurt others.They're like that sometimes because their NOT happy with themselves.Dont fall into the trap.Be yourself,and the ones that are gonna be ur TRUE friends wont hurt you like that.Good luck:-)
2006-12-04 16:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls. are. b i t c h e s. thats just how it is. thats how its always will be. I know its hard, but everyone goes through it. maybe it will give you some comfort to know you aren't the only one. don't worry, you'll get by. they'll grow up. and the people that really hurt you, you should stay away from.
2006-12-04 16:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand last year people use to call me anorexic because I'm so skinny look just forget about them and don't take any crap from them.
2006-12-04 16:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh my gosh, you're saying you have all this drama in grade SIX? what the hell can it possibly bee.. ok when people call you names like that, you should probably tell your teacher or the office if it's really offending you and hurting you because that's being bullied..
2006-12-04 16:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by hairkair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't pay any mind, and don't let what they say change the way you see yourself.
just keep your head up and know that this too shall pass.
2006-12-04 16:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋