2006-12-04 07:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only thing telling him would do is crush him and you will end up looking like the bad guy becaus as you said he believes anything she says.. tell the ho no and tell her she should be ashamed and one day he will see her for what she is on his own and you will still be his friend and be there to help him pick his heart up and go on
2006-12-04 08:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because believe me he will flip the script on you and act like you are just jealous and trying to ruin his marriage. We had a friend (notice I said "had") who married a lying, flirtatious, young girl that was cheating on him, dogging his dying dad out, saying all kind of demeaning stuff about him, and flirted with my husband and her sister-in-laws husband. When it was told to him what she was saying and doing, he didn't believe any of us (his mom and sister included). He said that we were just jealous of her, we were lying, that my husband and his sister's husband was looking at her because she's so pretty...blah, blah, blah. She even just cheated on him (he had the proof, saw the man, heard her talking to him, ...etc.) and he stayed with her. Everyone else was wrong and it wasn't her fault. So the moral is don't say nothing. Because he's obviously not going to believe you if he believes everything that she says. He's going to blame you and think that you're probably just after his wife. Let him catch her. He'll be able to see what's going on with his own eyes. And if after he sees and hears her, then hopefully he will have the common sense to leave her. And you won't be apart of anything that goes down except giving him your support. Good luck....
2006-12-04 16:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.CuteCaDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends/wives nope.
Stay away from her and possibly him for awhile. As soon as you try and spill the beans on her, she will flip the script on you and say you tried to sleep with her.
You shouldn't even be putting yourself in a situation to be accused by your friends wife (not that this is your fault) but appearance is everything. I wouldn't be around any of my friends wives unless they were 10 feet around. That should go for any other woman besides your girl, just makes for the possiblity of accusations.
You said yourself your friend believes everything his wife says? She will surely deny your accusation and probably spin it on you.
2006-12-04 16:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him simply because he will not believe you,if you tell him she will turn it around and say you tried to sleep with her..I would never be around her without him being around..If she ask you then you know she will sooner or later have an affair or end up sleeping with someone else,and when she does he will need your friendship...Some things are better left unsaid...you did not do anything wrong,so you have nothing to be ashamed of,let him find out on his own,trust me it will be better for you.....
2006-12-05 01:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do, YOU will wish you had not said a word to him down the line. He will hate you for it. Chill out for awhile, if she say anything out the way remind her who she is, The wife of one of your friends. All things down in the dark will come to light. In time he'll find out about her on his own.
2006-12-04 16:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by ced56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with a good friends wife.Let me tell you he found out and I miss him a lot.There is no woman worth losing a true friend over.I do know this because there were 5 of my friends that I screwed their wives.Do not tell him but do not sleep with her either.Just keep your mouth shut.let her sleep with someone else and if he finds out you have no reason to defend yourself over.You know he could kill you to death if you do sleep with her.I know it is hard to turn down sex but you really have to this time.Good luck.I hope you can learn from my stupid mistakes.
2006-12-04 16:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He needs to know that his wife wants to cheat on him. It could have been a joke, but that kind of thing is not funny. Either way you should tell.
2006-12-04 16:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get as far away from both of them as you can. Don't say a word just run.
2006-12-04 16:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are his friend you should tell him and don't sleep with her because it's not worth loosing a good buddy for a tramp!
2006-12-04 16:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way! dont tell! he will only believe her and you will be the bad guy!
2006-12-04 16:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋