Ok.here is the thing. I was was born with heavy eyelids. It came from my dads side. I am saving to have them fixed. I really dont have a real problem with them, esp since i know i am able to get that extra skin taken out. the problem is people. I am not going to toot my own horn here, but i think i am nice looking. i take good care of my self, yet when i go out, people snicker and tell me i look very tierd or that i look like i am high. This makes me want to run out of there and cry. there are times i dont want to go out in fear of people making comments. Until i have my eyes done, i have no conrtol over that. the only reason why i am having them done is because the eye lid gets heavier as you grow older and it becomes a prob. I dont know how to respond to these mean comments. :(
2006-12-04 07:53:54 · 5 answers · asked by carriec 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am very sorry that you have to go through all of that, but people will say anything. Putting others down can help some people feel better about themselves. Try not to let it get to you. You know that you are beautiful inside and out, don't let stupid peoples insecurities bother you.
2006-12-04 08:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is something that you will just have to learn to accept unfortunately. People can be cruel. If people give you 'looks' just smile.
If people make comments, I would just say no I'm not tired, or no I'm not high, but if they are people you know well, just tell them the reason you're eyes are like that, is because of a medical condition. then they will stop saying that, whenever they see you.
I think you have a good attitude, and I'm sorry people are stupid and thoughtless sometimes
Just think, if they knew, they wouldn't say anything or make fun, it is just their ignorance, and not really their fault, so don't hate them for it.
Acceptance is the key!
2006-12-04 15:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ambience 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them their breath smells.
2006-12-04 16:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww you know people can be really sick. Please don't take it to heart they are wrong to be so crule.
2006-12-04 16:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say "oh...... is that a complement?"
L=D)
2006-12-04 15:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Female 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋