me and m fiance are getting married we dont want babies for the first year and we intend to have only two babies in the future, he doesnt want me to take any tablets to prevent pregnancy as he doesnt trust those chemicals getting into my body he says we can use candoms ,,can we use candoms really? and after we get our two babies can we keep using them with no tablets? if no ,so is there any other way to prevent pregnancy without taking tablets any natural safe and trusted way as i dont wanna have more than two babies ?
2006-12-04 07:48:09 · 10 answers · asked by ASASAS 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
As far as having no more babies after the two, have him fixed and see how he likes the idea of the male birth control. If he wants to have so much input, let him take the first step, it is the only truly effective birth control. It really is your choice. You could always get your tubes tied as well, but education is your best ally and friend.
2006-12-04 07:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Hugo V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a variety of other methods to use besides the pill like the ring, an IUD, female condom, a diaphram. Depo shot. but the pill really should only be your choice if that is what you want not your fiances but always use a condom as a back up but I think you fiancee doesnt trust you to keep using the pill so he wants to make sure you can't get pregnant until he is ready. Plus condoms can break so you may end up pregnant before you are ready
2006-12-04 15:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by carmenjesusvenegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms would not be as effective as the pill. There are a variety of other methods of birth control. Check with Planned Parenthood, or their website:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control-4211.htm
However, it's really your decision if you want to take the pill. You're the one who's going to get pregnant.
2006-12-04 15:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think they would prescribe the pill to so many women if they thought it harmed them? Or made them sick? Talk with him for the REAL reason he doesn't want you on the pill.
Also, condoms break without warning. You're only going to get pregnant on the pill if you forget to take it.
2006-12-04 15:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could use condoms, a diaphragm, or an IUD, though this can be a painful option. After you have kids he should have a vasectomy. I don't think you will want to use condoms for the next twenty or so years.
2006-12-04 16:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FAM method. Fertility Awareness Method. You basically use your temperatures to chart your cycles and do not have intercourse durring your fertile times. Ovusoft.com is a great site for information, charting, buddy groups, support. The ladies on there will help you understand this method.
2006-12-04 15:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are not always foolproof, the pill has a much better rate of preventing pregnancy....try the patch
2006-12-04 15:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you use condoms and the calendar method together you will be just fine.
Mommy of 4
2006-12-04 15:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by mary3127 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms worked for me. We only have a baby when we don't use them. THere is always the rythem method. only having sex on the days you are not ovulating and condoms.
2006-12-04 15:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really and even the tablets are not 100%. He may be your husband but its your body in the end you must decide!
2006-12-04 15:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by thegoodwitchmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋