how do i no if im emo? i mean i cut myself,wear chains,and loiek black a lot but my parents don t get me ya no they think i shouldnt be like this but i cant help it...they forse me to wear pink...wat should i do?
2006-12-04 07:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i dont try to label myself.
2006-12-04 10:45:32 · update #1
get rid of the pink. yell if u have to, make a scene and rebel, but get ur parents to LISTEN. extreme measures are called for when they force pink on you.
don't label urself. check out the real meaning of emo. u haven't got it. cutting, chains and black really have little to do with emo. might even be a type of goth from that description.
u need a therapist, or at least someone to talk to.
life sucks, been there, still there, u gotta deal with it. calling urself emo doesn't help. friends, emo or otherwise, do help.
2006-12-04 08:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by implosion13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be goth or emo. I'm a punk/goth and I know quite a few cutters (serious cutters) that are in the goth scene. And some that aren't in the scene.
The music you listen to is probably your best indicator as to what scene you most relate to. Do you like AFI or Type O Negative? It depends. AFI, Panic At the Disco, Thirty Seconds to Mars = Emo. Siouxsie, Type O, The Cure = Goth. And then you may like both, who knows? It doesn't matter what you are right now.
I do hope you get help in the cutting department though. Cutting can be dangerous. There is always the chance of infection, and cutting too deeply. Check out www.http://self_injury.com
Also, you should sit down with your parents and discuss the clothing. If they know of your cutting, this might be most of their concern, thinking that the clothing is negatively affecting you. Get help with the cutting, and research the positives of being creative and how it can later benefit you. Parents are usually more willing to allow something unknown into their lives, if they see positives from it.
2006-12-04 08:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, don t cut yourself, it s bad for you and you should never do it. Secondly, learn to spell. Wearing black clothes doesn t necessarily make you emo, I wear black clothes and I m not emo. Thirdly, this is just a phase if you are emo (which you re probably not), it will go away in a couple of months. Trust me. And lastly you re like 10 (considering your spelling) go outside and never come back to the internet until you are at least 13-15. Also, pink is obviously not your favourite colour so just tell your parents you don t like. Either that or suck it up princess.
2016-08-17 18:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why first of all would you want to cut your self that is the worst thing to do i'm a teen to and face problems and get upset to but i would never cut my self. first all emo only means emotional so u were black not that bad just tell your parents you think that you look better with black than pink but don't go to the extreme with black. second what kind of chains, chains like picky chains. just dress like a normal teen girl would.
2006-12-04 07:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by ig0tquestions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** is a "emo" you know what i say you need to take a chill pill and stop cuttin ur self losing blood is not healthy and i "loiek" to wear black but i dont harm myself tell ur parent this is me and i dont like pink and one last thing if you have problem talk to someone you trust and not anyone on this site because most people are trying just 2 get points and some people will just ridiclue u ok bye
2006-12-04 07:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by nobleicus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
******* poser is what you are i bet your some 16 yr.old or younger trying to label yourself im not Emo cause i hate them but i tell you one thing i know your not by saying you cut yourself...so what your saying is...i was emo when i was hardcore on drugs and cutting myself,,,,but i was no ******* emo ! i wear everything black and all the **** and im still not ******* Emo...your just not..!! try not labeling yourself your just normal to me. Only a real Emo can answer your pathetic little question.
2006-12-04 07:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOCK UP THE BUTTER KNIVES WE'VE GOT A BLEEDER!!!!
J/K well kinda, do you REALLY know what EMO is and would you really want to label yourself as one, I think you just need someone to talk to, sounds like you may have a few issues, and really all you need is a friend
AND not an EMO friend
2006-12-04 07:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by sbourque79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should cut some more, put on some more chains and dye your hair again. that ought to make you MORE emo? wtf? why do you have to try so hard to supposedly "be" something you "are"? as if black, or pink, for that matter, defines much.
2006-12-04 07:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe goth
emos cry and go on like no gets them and there life is so hard and tragic. Damn suburbs are like eastern russia I suppose.
I cut myself to feel bah lol
2006-12-04 07:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Labatt113 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I A NICE LOOKING MAN
2006-12-04 07:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by jamie b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋