2006-12-04 07:27:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Then he does not respect or love you. if he did he would wait until you are ready.
2006-12-04 19:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by chelle0980 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont let anyone pressure you into anything you dont want to do. If he tells you things like"if you love me, you will"... that is minipulation and he really doesnt care for your best interest. A boy likes a girl who is strong and stands up to her beliefs and morlals. Dont let him pressure you into having sex before you are ready. You may get pregnant or get an STD. Not worth it. Most likely a guy who will pressure a girl will drop her as soon as he gets what he wants and move on to the next one. Your dignity and self worth is worth more than that. Talk to anyone who will listen to you...your parents, a friends parents, even his parents. A school teacher or councelor, someone at church, anyone who will know what is happening and who will give you support and please, tell your boyfriend NO! and if he cant respect you for that, then that should tell you right there how much he cares for you and what he is really wanting out of the relationship. Good luck sweetie!
2006-12-04 07:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by jh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, sweetie. You will regret it if you give in when you are not really ready. If he doesn't understand, he doesn't deserve you. You are only 14--he is certainly not the only love you will ever have in your life. There are lots of us girls out here successfully waiting for a certain age or even marraige, so don't feel like you are alone. Your integrity and self respect is much more important than losing your virginity (especially to someone rude enough to pressure you into it).
2006-12-04 08:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by g_la_hunt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, no guy who LOVES you will pressure you. If he loves you, there would be NO pressure, NO snide comments about your frigidity, NO sneaky hands trying physically to convince you otherwise. Get rid of him- He's the sort of guy who DOESN"Tt bring the condoms, DOESN"T want the baby and WON"T respect you in the morning. You're worth so much more than that- hold out for that special person who idolises you----chances are, you won't be with him for another 10yrs or so, but that is the relationship you want if you want sex....and there should be a diamond ring involved!!
2006-12-04 07:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by chikensnsausages 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...I'm sorry to be so harsh...but dump him!
He's not worth it. If he truly loved you then he would be willing to wait for you. Guys like him don't love the girl, they love something the girl can give them.
Here's a good trick to use on guys like him...every time you are with him carry a quarter with you. And when he starts asking you if you wanted to do it then hand him the quarter and say "Here, call my parents and ask them first, if they say its ok then I'll do it"
Chances are good that he'll back off at that point. BUT if he fakes the call and said that your folks were ok with it then be sure to carry another quarter so you can call them back to make sure.
Pushy guys are no fun, wait until you can find a cute romantic guy who will be glad to wait for you. Find a guy who you can picture marrying, before you even think about sex and such.
Please be careful, you're dealing with a serious thing.
--Monker
2006-12-04 10:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Monker123456 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to carry on seeing him, then tell him that you are not even going to consider having sex until you are at the legal age of consent which is 16. I recommend that you dont spend too much time cosying up at his or yours, and that you get out and about with other young people, so you are not tempted!
2006-12-05 02:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LET HIM PRESSURE U INTO DOING SOMETHING U DONT WANT 2 IF U WANT TO HAVE SEX OR THINK YOURE READY THAN GO AHEAD JUST USE PROTECTION BUT TRY NOT TO TRUST ME UR NOT OLD ENOUGH AND THINK R U SURE HES THE GUY ..............I BEEN IN UR PLACE AND I WAS DUMB ENOUGH TO GET CARRIED AWAY I WAS ALSO 14 AT THE TIME KNOW I AM 17 AND I STILL REGRET FALLING 4 THAT IDIOT SOMETIMES ITS ALL THEY WANT AND THEN THEY WILL LEAVE U........
2006-12-04 11:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by moniq 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to the pressure. Don't let him convince you to do what you're not ready for. If it's getting to be too much for you, maybe ya'll should break up. There will be other guys. He's just trying to get his groove on and nothing more.
2006-12-04 07:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should get away if he is pressuring you to do things you dont wanna do, i was in a relationship where the guy was 19 and i was 15 he started pressureing me to have sex with him, do drugs and other stuff which i did because i loved him, then he became abusive and i dealt with it because i was scared and i loved him. finally i got away and i wish i would have never put my self there so i promised my self i would help others who have similar problems
2006-12-05 05:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illegal to have sex before you are 16. dont ever let a boy pressure you into doing something you dont want to. if he really cares about you he will wait until you are ready.
2006-12-05 03:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by megz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now. If he really cared he would not pressure you to do anything. He just wants you for sex.
2006-12-04 08:06:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋