i have asked a couple of questions regarding my earlier questions if i should be waiting for two weeks to get an answer on asking the love of my life to marry me. the feedback on here is basically 70% saying that i shouldnt have to wait even a couple of days for an answer. the sad thing is I really agree, & now i dont know what to do. but i did tell her that this friday is the deadline for her to answer me. but, here is another thorn in my side. she has a FINAL EXAM to take in 8 days on tues. she must get 149 out of 150 right to pass her RN course. so do i become an *** from hell on friday & ask for the answer, or wait until the day after the exam & then ask. if she doesnt give me an answer on friday, i walk, she cries, & most likely fails the test. if i wait, dont pressure her, & she STILL fails, well that isnt my fault, and i can always know that her failing school wasn't my doing. im stuck once again and im getting mad at this waiting game by keeping everything inside my head!!!
2006-12-04 07:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definetly DON"T wait. If she can't say YES right away, she never will. If she has to think about it, then she proably has to decide between something, I'm not a person who likes to dumb or being dumb. But I think this would be best for u in this situation! Thanks for reading, Best of Luck!
2006-12-04 07:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should definitely wait until after the exam; and the most likely reason she has not given you an answer is because of all the stress she is having concerning this test.
Give her some space until after the test, and then ask her if she had made her decision. If she still pushes you off, ask her exactly why does she not want to give you an answer yet? If it bothers you that much that she has yet to give u a reply then the ultimate thing to do would be to withdraw. But then again, it would be selfish to not be patient for her, if you truly have strong feelings for her. Instead stand by her side, so that she sees your support for passing this test and be patient.
Love is about being patient, and selfless.......try those traits as she goes through this test taking phase of her life.
2006-12-04 07:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk a way, take a deep breath, and give her space until her exam is over. Too much pressure could scare her away. If she's the love of your life, that shouldn't change in a week or two. Back off and let her sort out whatever she needs to do. She knows the question is out there and will give you an answer when she can. Push too hard now and she may run the other way.
2006-12-04 07:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get why she is making you wait. That's a big red flag. If I asked someone to marry me I would want the yes right after the question was asked. If she has to think this long then its not right and you two should not get married. As far as her test you might as well just wait until after the test to get your ring back. Why be blamed for her failing the test if you dont have to.
2006-12-04 07:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋