We live in Oklahoma and our days off we spend drinking or gambling because he says theres nothing fun to do! I need help I dont want to kill my liver or my wallet anymore!
2006-12-04 06:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by alkire_rakaba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
erotic massage
art shows
dance shows
look in the oklahoma gazette
there are millions of things to do
take a cooking class together
go to a book discussion group
try out dances of universal peace
take a yoga class
there is so much to do.
he just wants to do those things.
there are free or cheap concerts all over.
try a coffeehouse.
there is a place called sober grounds in oklahoma city.
honestly there are so many events.
and opportunities.
go to the sierra club meeting
photography club.
neighborhood association.
orchid-growers.
drumming circle on paseo friday nights.
ballroom dance lessons.
dinner with friends.
ice skating
roller skating.
volunteer at a food pantry.
golf. fish. go to the library.
start a business.
garage sales.
church. a church you both like.
if you need more specific directions on what is going on here, email me.
but your real problem is that your hubby
WANTS to do those things. that is the problem.
createspiritdance@yahoo.com
2006-12-04 07:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man you need to get out in the daylight. Get a cheap 4x4 and go four wheeling. Just get out where you can watch others tear up thier rigs. Go to a local pools and you can get a tan and both get turned on looking at other people. There are new people trying all kinds of new sports. So any sport you like you can start off at even knowing nothing and not be the only ones that way. There are also all kinds of shows for people of all interest. Just pick up a local paper and se what's going on. Get a motorcycle or bicycle and go for short rides. Ever try to skate? Try some of what ever to you find somethings you like.
2006-12-04 15:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ... I can not believe what I am reading! There is plenty to do.
Go fishing, bowling, rent some good movies, go for a long walk, bike riding.Invite family or friends. Even cheaper cook something together, message each other, Do his toes and the same for you..
Think back when you guys meet. Get out of the ugly routine. Light the fire sister use your creative imagination. Re candle LOVE
2006-12-04 15:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Iris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bowling, shoot pool, darts, cultural events, I'm sure there is a museum around town (art or natural history), crafts, fix up home, picnic, hiking, aphrodisiac cooking.
Use some creativity.
2006-12-04 15:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse and I had NOTHING you do we would:
Exercise
Eat well
Sleep
and use up all the lube in Virginia.
We do have a day like that once in a while. It's great and we take those days whenever we can.
2006-12-04 15:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep late!!! stay in bed together all day!!! go out to lunch together. strolls through the park. stuff like that. U dont always have to spend money to have a good time
2006-12-04 15:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to bake or cook cook a meal together or watch a video together or go for a bike ride.
2006-12-04 15:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by clown_82401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a museum, go for a hike, play a game, volunteer, take a class together, bake cookies.....
2006-12-04 15:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by vlalto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies, TV shows, dinner out, dinner in, hiking or biking (or any other exercise), hanging out with friends, video games, reading, getting a pet (dog, cat, fish, you name it).
2006-12-04 15:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about stay at home and enjoy the in between the sheets entertainment
2006-12-04 16:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by mj_jll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋