Why do guys just want to go to sleep after making love and not want to talk?

Answer 1

Cuz they are tired and doesnt want to talk after they have done, what they had to do

Answer 2

It's not that they don't want to talk. Men who fall asleep right after sex are merely giving in to biological forces. At orgasm, both men and women release the hormone oxytocin. Oxytocin is also thought to reduce stress levels, which could lead to relaxation and sleepiness.

Then there is the biochemistry of the orgasm itself. Research shows that during ejaculation, men release a cocktail of brain chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide (NO), and the hormone prolactin. The release of prolactin is linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction, and it also mediates the “recovery time” that men are well aware of—the time a guy must wait before “giving it another go.” Studies have also shown that men deficient in prolactin have faster recovery times.

Prolactin levels are naturally higher during sleep, and animals injected with the chemical become tired immediately. This suggests a strong link between prolactin and sleep, so it’s likely that the hormone’s release during orgasm causes men to feel sleepy.

It’s also possible that sleepiness is just a “side effect” associated with a more evolutionarily important reason for the release of oxytocin and vasopressin. In addition to being associated with sleep, both chemicals are also intimately involved in what is called “pair bonding,” the social attachment human mates commonly share. The release of these brain chemicals during orgasm heightens feelings of bonding and trust between sexual partners, which may partially explain the link between sex and emotional attachment. This bond is favorable should the couple have a baby, as cooperative child rearing maximizes the young one’s chances for survival.

The bottom line is this: there are many potential biochemical and evolutionary reasons for post-sex sleepiness, some direct and some indirect—but no one has yet pinpointed the exact causes. One thing, however, is certain: we females better get used to it, because it doesn’t look likely to change anytime soon.

Answer 3

The same reason why we start sobbing uncontrollably after 45 minutes in a ladies shoe-shop as you selfishly try on every shoe in the shop!

The real answer is, men and women are simply different. I could say to you; "Why do you talk in a different accent when you're decorating a christmas tree?"

See? Life is a seasaw. Men are good at keeping secrets. Now we need women to be good at something to keep the seasaw moving. Women are good at keeping their f@rts in.

How do you get a woman to keep a secret? You whisper it up her @rse!!!

I hope you now realise the difference between the boys and the girls.

God Bless You!

Answer 4

It's not just guys. I want to too. I sleep so well after that.

Answer 5

I think its because we drain all there energy !!my hubby can get up and talk we usually always snuggle and talk after .But I know where I used to work the women would say well lets go home get the hubby asleep and that's what it was ha ha who knows the reason .its like a Valium to them ,I think

Answer 6

I'm glad they go to sleep. I don't want to be bothered after sex with cuddling or talking. I just want to lay in bed and watch tv

Answer 7

there is a scientific explanation for that...after sex, the brain in males produces some chemical that makes them wana go to sleep. im sure you can find stuff about it on the internet, sorry i dont really know it in detail

Answer 8

Many times just want to enjoy the moment.

Answer 9

I agree with carcaterr...
Whenever I don't get sleep, I will have sex with my wife, after which I get a good sleep..

Answer 10

Because woman are naturally emotional and men are more task oriented meaning that they prefer not to do all of that cuddling and talking stuff!!! besides it hard work having sex.