I'm married for 6 yeas and last month I made love with a trannie wihtout condoms, today I found out that I'm pregnant. My husband can't have children so I can't tell him the child is his. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him the truth?
2006-12-04 05:50:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you should you have already embrassed him enough.
2006-12-04 05:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
No do not tell him the truth. Have the trannie trick him into bed. USING CONDOMS!! Then you find out, through the trannie or somehow have it planned so you find out. Then you tell him you like trannies and want to do a threesome. Arrange for the condom to break and there you go. You must act fast to pull this one off.
On the serious side leave your husband and hang with the trannie. It is the only decent thing to do.
2006-12-04 12:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!!!! WHAT IN THE WORLD!..... WHY???
That's a hot mess of a situation! Now because of your irresponsible and aweful behavior an innocent child and your husband have to suffer mentally (and perhaps physically) the consequences of your actions.
What's wrong with you? You're on this yahoo space asking should you tell him the truth when the real issue is now that you're in this particular "situation" because you didn't know how to be truthful in the first place, how can I do damage control?. Your guilt is doing a number on you and not to mention you won't be able to hide too much longer.
Truth is.... If you weren't pregnant you wouldn't tell him that you've been unfaithful would you? And just wondering....are you sorry that you're caught out there orare you even sorry started this mess in the first place? For every action there is a reaction and consequence. Quite sure you didn't bother to put yourself in your husbands shoes and consider how this would hurt him deeply if he were to find out about your extracirrucular activity. You're unable to bypass this situation with a quick fix... You'll have to deal with this for years to come. Seek counciling and CHECK yourself!.....WOW!!!
2006-12-04 06:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What else can you do ---eventually, he will see for himself that your pregnant won't he? The truth is always best. You need some big time, serious counseling! The poor baby coming into the world with mother cheats with a transvestite. If you can't handle the baby some lovely childless couple would be so happy to have the baby. Figure out WHY you were cheating and Why with a transie??????? Strange????
2006-12-04 06:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming this is not some silly joke......'cuz there are lots of those kind of questions on this site.....
Frankly, in your place, assuming you want to stay married, that your husband is a lovely man, and you made a horrible mistake, I wouldn't make a second one and tell him, and hope he'd put his arms around me forgiveme and tell me everything is fine, because it won't be fine. Betrayal in a marriage takes a minimum of 2 years of counseling to heal it, and that is if both wish to save it.....he probably wouldn't wish to..... two years and no guarantees is a long time. You are then asking him to forever look and raise and love something he had nothing to do with.... Not likely he would wish to.
In your place, I'd get an abortion.... not a wonderful solution, but the better of the two, and the sooner, the better
2006-12-04 06:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a really hard time believing that this is a serious question. Mainly because DUH, how could you not tell him??? If your husband isn't able to have children, what do you think he'll just believe that you somehow got pregnant? I mean seriously...let's be real here. You need to tell him the truth. Furthermore, I hope you get yourself tested, and you haven't been having sex with your husband since you could have God only knows what from the transvestite.
2006-12-04 06:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This question made me lough a lot,how unlucky you are,all negatives together,let's add that you yesterday learned that you are now at risk of aids,in addition you are from a country that the women had no rights and may be killed because of this position,you ask for a litte help from the yahoo answers,what a luck,the electricity is off and you can not even read them,
2006-12-04 19:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by dermatoz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you could spare his feelings some by just telling him that he is going to be a father. That you wanted a child so bad that you went out and found a sperm donner to assist. If he gets nasty, then you can tell him the rest of the story. Good luck new mom.
2006-12-04 05:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who do you think is going to believe this line of bull ****.You really need to find something to do with your time.Maybe you can write short store's
or build model cars.Paint your basement or draw flys.Your life is at a stand still.What are you gone to be when you grow up?Well you have a long long long time to think about it.What are you now about 6 or 7 years old?
2006-12-04 06:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's difficult but if your husband can't have children and asuming that you want to keep the baby i think he will notice that your pregnant it will be better of in the long run if you tell him
i really hope things work out for you
good luck
2006-12-04 12:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow thats a difficult situation well you can do one of two things tell him and prepare yourself for the worst or not tell him and him find out so basically you have to tell him in my opinion it is what is is see what he says just be ready cuz hes prob gonna snap out on you that could mess him up in the head esp since its from a trany that can kill a mans self esteem
2006-12-04 05:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋