me and my boyfriend first had sex afta the skool disco, but when me and my mates sneeked into club 69 i swore i saw him chatting up a guy, and when i went over to talk to him he just ignored me and then i couldn't wait for him outside because we got chucked out for being underaged what should i do???
2006-12-04 05:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by Carmel Loveitt 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Unless he had his hand down the other guys pants I don't see how you came to the conclusion that he has turned gay. I'm assuming that this was not in a gay club.
2006-12-04 06:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunantly just because someone has sex with you doesn't mean they want to stay with you. If you're curious about his sexual prefernce the best thing to do is approach him about it. If you really feel he is gay though, or if he's just being an @ss and ignoring you like that, you should leave him. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and he obviously doesn't... cut your losses now and find yourself someone who pays attention to. He may not be gay he might just be ignoring you because he used you. Happens all the time, you wouldn't be the first girl to fall for a guy like that so don't feel bad.
2006-12-04 14:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know,being a gay or bi is not a sin. it is all about hormones. its a matter of attitudes. your boyfriend may have simply had a chitchat with another guy. that does not mean he is a gay.he may be a bisexual. nothing to worry about that. i think upto a certain extent, every creature in this universe are bisexuals. only when time arises,or there comes an opportunity,their attitude,just protrudes.
2006-12-04 14:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by kannan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How in the world would you know that he was chatting up a guy?Maybe he was making coneversation.
Did you jump to a wrong conclusion?
Talk to him ,find out,before accusing someone to be gay ,ok?
Rob.xxx
2006-12-04 14:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was always gay...you probably just helped him confirm the fact. Move on. You can't change him, you can just change your relationship with him. He also might just be Bi-Sexual. Trust me if your underage you will have plenty of time to find someone else. Be careful about STD's.
2006-12-04 13:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by D'Arcy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turned GAY????
I think you mean you just discovered he was gay or bi!
Maybe he just discovered it too!
And why would you confront him about it. It's personal and maybe something he isn't ready to discuss with you.
It sounds like you didn't know him to begin with.
Casual sex, unfortunately, is a big health risk - be careful with ANYONE you sleep with and use protection.
2006-12-04 13:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by kc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was talking to a gay guy. And you're ready to leave? to much soap in this opera for me....
2006-12-04 14:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you just turned me gay!!
Oh wait, I was gay this morning.
He didn't turn gay, he probably isn't that in to you, and I think we all got an inkling as to why that might be.
Move on, gay or straight, the boy isn't interested.
2006-12-04 14:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a guy can have gay friends without being gay himself.
maybe he went as a wingman for someone else and had a great time anyway.
2006-12-04 13:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Lol, don't panic. Talking to the same sex doesn't make anybody gay.
2006-12-04 13:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Earthling 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋